Secrets To Trigger His CHASE Instinct

How to get him to chase you. If you would like to have a man chase and pursue you, to actually initiate, come closer to you and want to be your hero, be the man that you want him to be without a man pulling away, losing interest or rejecting you, then we're going to dive deeper into that in this video. I'm Brody Boyd with Magnetize youe man. And for over 20 years, combined with my wife Antia, we've been helping thousands of successful women all over the world to attract a loving, long term and committed relationship with the man they want. So let's go ahead and dive in. So if you really want a man to chase and pursue you, you need to understand masculine feminine dynamics. And you need to understand the distinction between initiating and signaling. Once you can understand this distinction, you'll be able to easily communicate and interact with a man that makes him come closer to you and makes him do all the work, makes him put in all the effort to actually move the relationship forward and create a loving connection with you. So let's dive in now to this powerful distinction. Initiating versus Sign Signaling. The law of polarity states that opposite energies attract. And in terms of masculine feminine polarity, initiating is masculine and signaling is feminine. This is because initiating is a form of masculine leadership and signaling is a form of vulnerability and openness. So masculine energy is chasing and pursuing. The feminine energy is signaling openness and vulnerability that's drawing him to chase and pursue you. So this is important because if you can learn to signal to a man rather than initiate, you will help create polarity in your relationship with him, which leads to more attraction, chemistry, passion, love and devotion. So let's dive into what is initiating. Here's some definitions. So initiating is the act of beginning something new. Again, initiation is masculine energy. It's beginning something new or the process of starting an action, event or process. The act of causing something to begin, setting something in motion, or bringing something into existence. The act of making the first move to establish a connection with someone. And this could include starting a conversation, sending a message, or asking someone out on a date. And it's also the process of starting a formal romantic relationship. This often involves a conversation where one person suggests moving from casual dating to a committed relationship. Now let's look at the other side of that, the feminine side, which is signaling. So what is signaling? Signaling is the act of sending a message or or indication to him, either consciously or unconsciously, to convey information or intentions. This can be done through verbal communication, body language, gestures or other forms of expression. In biology Signaling refers to the process by which cells communicate with each other through molecules, hormones or other forms of chemical signaling. This communication helps coordinate functions and responses within an organism. Social signaling is the process by which individuals communicate social status, intentions or or identity through behaviors, choices or possessions in the context of dating or relationships. Signaling refers to the subtle or overt cues that individuals give to indicate interest, availability or emotional states to a potential or current partner. So it can be a slight difference between these two, signaling and initiating. But the differences in how a man responds to each can be often profound where one can cause him to chase and pursue you, the other can cause him to potentially pull away and withdraw. So if you are initiating rather than signaling, you will reduce or eliminate polarity in your relationship and thereby reduce or eliminate the attraction, chemistry, passion, love and devotion that he may feel towards you. A great analogy for this is the process of fertilization. In fertilization, the egg releases specific chemicals known as chemo attractants into the surrounding environment. These chemicals create a gradient that sperm can detect and follow. The closer the sperm gets to the egg, the higher the concentration of these chemicals. So the egg is simply signaling, releasing these chemicals, these signals out and the sperm is chasing and pursuing, following these signals and initiating and fertilizing the egg. Another great analogy is the car and the mechanic. If you have a car, your car is also signaling to you in different ways. When the gas tank is full or empty, if the seat belt isn't buckled, or if the oil or engine needs to be checked, etc. So the car is just simply signaling to you when there's an issue. The car doesn't have to scream or yell at the mechanic or tell the mechanic what to do. It simply turns the light on and signals to let him know that there is an issue. It is up to him to actually take the initiative to fix it as the mechanic. This is what will help you in your relationship with a man to be able to signal to him how you are feeling rather than initiating and telling him what to do or leading, guiding him to to get what you want. Another great analogy for this is the flower and the bee. Think of a flower in bloom. A flower doesn't chase after the bee. It simply opens up displaying its beauty and fragrance which naturally attracts the bee. This is signaling, being open, receptive, vulnerable and inviting. So the flower and the bee is another great analogy to think about this. So now let's go into how can you practice? How can you use this? How can you signal to a man to inspire him to chase You. Rather than initiating with a man and you chasing and pursuing him, we're going to reverse it. We're going to attract him and draw him to you for a loving relationship. So there's a couple keys with this. Secret number six is expressing vulnerability. So that would be sharing feelings. Instead of telling a man what to do, you can express your emotions in a vulnerable way, such as saying, I'm feeling anxiety or I'm having a hard time with something. This signals that you're available to his support and help when without demanding it. The other thing you can use is gentle honesty. You can share your feelings honestly but gently, like saying, I'm struggling with something and could really use someone to talk to. This approach invites the man to step in and offer support, just like the warning light on the car. And then the mechanic comes in to step in and say, what do you need help with? How can I help you, babe? The next secret is secret number five, which is nonverbal cues. So an example of this would be making eye contact and smiling. A simple yet powerful way to signal interest to a man is by making prolonged eye contact and offering a warm, genuine smile. This invites him to approach and take the lead without you needing to make the first move. Again, it's just like the sperm in the egg, right? The egg is releasing these signals like smiling and great eye contact. And then the sperm is initiating and taking action and moving towards the egg or towards you to engage with you. The other cute non verbal cue you can use is the other side of things, tearfulness or quietness. Potentially, if you're feeling sad or upset, allowing your emotions to show through tearfulness, for example, can signal that something is wrong. This sometimes prompts the man to ask what's going on and offers comfort. Although the caveat here is this has to be authentic and not an act to get his attention. Men have a sixth sense for this. They can often tell when you're using tears or pouting or other forms of, let's call it negative body language as a way to try to manipulate or control him. So it has to be authentic and it has to be about you and not trying to get anything from him by doing that. The other, the other secret here is body language. Subtle changes in your body language, such as slumping shoulders, avoiding eye contact or sighing, can also indicate that you're troubled. These signals can also sometimes cause a man to inquire about your well being. Again, it has to be authentic and it has to be genuine and doing it not to try to control him or get an outcome. But simply sharing, simply being true to how you're actually feeling, expressing that through your body. Secret number four is request for help or support. So asking for advice. Instead of trying to fix the problem yourself or telling him what to do, you could say, I could really use your opinion on something, or could I ask what you would do in this situation? This signals that you value his input and are looking for his guidance without directly stating the issue, although you can state the issue directly as well. But you want to do that respectfully because the other option here is inviting comfort. You could say something like, I'd really love to just relax with you tonight, signaling that you need emotional support and comfort without explicitly asking for it or telling him what to do. Secret number three is asking for permission. So rather than immediately talking about what you want to share with him or get from him, you can simply ask. This signals that you have a desire for something rather than penetrating him energetically and taking the attention, care, etc. That you want from him or telling him what to do. For example, you can say, may I ask for a phone call? Or can I share a feeling I'm having? Or may I ask you another question about that? Or could I share a problem that I've been experiencing at work with you? So these are all ways to ask for permission to actually signal for him that you would like something for him to listen or something you would like him to do for you, such as what we talked about before. Asking for help in a way that's feminine, in a way that's vulnerable, that is inviting him to then take the lead and to take the next steps by saying yes and giving you what you asked for. Essentially. Now, secret number two is softening statements. So using I statements, rather than making statements that could come across as accusatory, use the I statements like I'm feeling a bit stressed and could use some quiet time, which signals your needs without directly asking for his change or action. So simply just saying I. I am experiencing this, I am feeling this. That is about you. That's simply signaling what's going on for you. And then he can take action on that voluntarily. You're not saying, you need to give me some space or you need to help me, or you. You're not using the word you at all. You're making it about yourself. That's signaling. Feminine signaling. The next key is acknowledging his role. You might say, I always feel better when I talk to you, which signals your need for support while also appreciating his presence. Any form of appreciation is a great signal of letting a man know also when he's doing a good job, when he's succeeding, when he's making you feel positive emotions such as happiness, joy, relaxation, safety, comfort, et cetera. Great things to share with a man. And then secret number one is creating space for his initiative. So leaving the door open instead of leading him or telling him what to do, you can create an opening by saying something like I'm not sure what to do about this right now, which signals that you're seeking support but also allowing him to take the lead in offering it. You're saying, I don't know what to do. I'm uncertain, I'm confused. You could also combine that with a request, could I have some help? But simply saying I don't know what to do or I'm confused gives it up to him to potentially step in and help you with that thing. Rather than directly saying, you need to give me some clarity here or you need to fix this for me. Simply saying, I don't know what to do. I'm available for a man to take the lead and help me with this. Of like the damsel in distress in the night in shining armor, the damsel's simply signaling I don't know what to do, I need help. Where's my knight in shining armor? I need a hero. And he can be that hero for you. The next piece is pausing for his response. After expressing your feelings or concerns, you can pause and give him space to respond. This signals that you're open to his support without pressuring him to take action immediately. So the power of the pause My wife likes to say a queen holds. So when you simply pause and allow space after you've shared something, you allow him to feel you. You allow him to step in and take the lead from there to start guiding the conversation forward and asking you questions or taking the lead to come to a solution to help you solve the problem. So those are some of the big secrets to start signaling rather than initiating and being in your masculine with a man to be in your feminine openness and vulnerability to draw him in rather than chasing him. Initiating taking the masculine role and pushing him away potentially to cause him to lose interest and or reject you. Next, if you haven't yet, highly recommend taking free Magnetize youe Man quiz to get a man to desire you and crave you for a loving, long term and committed relationship. To go deeper in these tactics, in these secrets, Learning feminine polarity and feminine communication, which you can get by clicking the special link below this video or in the comments or going to our website magnetizeyourman.com Much love. Hope this was helpful and looking forward to talking more very soon. Bye bye.