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A coach argues that women often lose themselves by focusing too much on partners and others' problems. Instead of constantly solving for someone else, identify what you actually want and make that your priority.
A coach argues that women often lose themselves by focusing too much on partners and others' problems. Instead of constantly solving for someone else, identify what you actually want and make that your priority.
Stop being too other focused. Look, one thing I notice when I have a call with a woman like talking about her dating life is that she always knows the life of the man that she describes way better than her own problem or her own vision, right? She knows like who he dated and that he went through therapy or he didn't go to therapy or what kind of childhood he had or whatever's going on, what it's favorite golf game is. You know what I mean? It's like stop being so other focused. So hold on a second. Do you know what you desire? Like you know, did you, when did you get your needs met the last time? So it's really actually learning, right? To not like say okay what can I do for you? Can I solve your problem? Right? Being quick to be there for everyone else, being quick to be understanding of everyone else but instead said truly learning the art of focusing on yourself.
