A short coaching-style talk (YouTube) that explains a view of male psychology in relationships: men seek to feel needed, valuable, and able to provide, while women seek love and cherishing. The speaker argues that men's happiness is tied to feeling needed and respected and proposes 'magnetic feminine polarity' and 'magnetic feminine communication' as methods to inspire men to give and provide in relationships.
Men need to feel needed, and they would rather give to you than receive from you. This is because a man's fundamental drive within his masculine core, within his masculine instinct, is to feel valuable, to feel that he can be of service. This is one of the big ways that men and women feel happiness differently. Women want to feel loved and cherished in a relationship. Men want to feel like they have a purpose, that they are needed, valued, admired, appreciated and and respected. And a big piece of that is knowing that he can provide for you, that he can be the hero for you, that he can make you happy. If a man doesn't feel like he can be a woman's hero because he's not needed, because she is disrespectful to him, she's not valuing or appreciating what he brings to the table, then he's going to start feeling that he can't be part of the relationship anymore, he needs to distance himself from. Because it's the same as if a man was to say to a woman that you're ugly, you're unlovable, and I just have no feelings of love for you. That would be the equivalent pain that a man feels when he feels that his woman doesn't respect him, that she's not treating him respectfully, that she's not valuing what he is doing for her or what he can do for her. And if your man is not giving to you, he is not providing for you, then there are ways you can inspire him to start providing for you, to start giving to you in different ways and making you happy through using magnetic feminine polarity and magnetic feminine communication that we teach.
