These 4 Feminine Habits Will Melt His Heart For YOU

YouTube coaching video by Anthea Boyd (Magnetize Your Man) presenting four feminine habits she claims attract men: (1) offering a positive feedback loop when he is vulnerable, (2) being carefree/playful, (3) expressing a wide emotional range/high charisma, and (4) owning your "weird." The speaker uses personal anecdotes (including husband Brody and childhood examples), gives practical examples and micro-behaviors, and ends with a call-to-action to take a free love quiz/virtual coaching at getlovequiz.com to get a committed relationship.
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Four feminine habits most men can't resist. Have you ever wondered what makes a man be attracted to you? Here I give you four signs and practical tips on how to attract that man to you. Hey, I'm Anthea Boyd with Magnetize youe Man. And together with my husband Brody, we've been helping thousands of successful women all over the world to get connected, committed and long term relationship. And that you desire fast. So let's go ahead and dive right in. One feminine habit most men can't resist is the positive feedback loop. One feminine habit most men can't resist is the positive feedback loop. And this of course states that when he shares something particular, something vulnerable, maybe something that happened at work, that you have encouraging and positive words for him, that you have like positive emotions that he gets to feel sort of like comfortable with, that he gets to sort of like sink into and feel safe with. So for example, when I met my husband Brody, and he would maybe tell me when he didn't have such a great day at the office, quote, unquote office, because he's an entrepreneur, you know, I would always find like the right ways to actually just really uplift him, encourage and empower him, you know, tell him that he's super capable, that tomorrow is another day, right? And that he can reach whatever he wants to reach, that he is a legacy lever or a trailblazer or whatever words you want to use. But I give him sort of this positive feedback and because that of course feels wonderful to his nervous system. Come back for more. Now, the next feminine habit most men can't resist is when you are care free. There's something to be said about a woman who's playful, who's sort of, you know, unencumbered, who's light and look, this doesn't mean. Because I know what you want to say, look, I have so much going on in my life. Maybe you're seeing a mom and you're watching right now. I get it. However, I also find that, that we have different energies inside of ourselves. So there is this part inside of you that once upon a time was able to step into more joy or to step into more playfulness or to step into more spontaneity. Now it take may take a moment to absolutely access that, but that was one of my biggest breakthroughs on my journey to not only attracting my husband, but of course to also have now this lasting 10 year marriage so far that we have had. And that is just really breaking through the limiting beliefs that can come up, such as, you know, that's stupid or you know, that's like irrational or, you know, that's silly, you know, and you know that's you're being sort of like, you're used to getting sort of like almost like a demeaning sort of response from at least one of your parents when you were stepping sort of into that fun side. So what that sounded like, for example, could be, you know, I had a narcissistic mom, so she would always say, oh, aren't you please? But I was just carefree. I was just singing, dancing, skipping through the house and later on even singing solos. So you may even have a talent in that. And even though your parents did not agree with that. So anyways, when you step into this carefreeness, you really bring out sort of the masculine inside of him. You also hand him sort of like this emotional map, but you give him permission to see what else is life all about. And this never ending quest that he of course then goes on and makes you irresistible. The next feminine habit most men can't resist is a high charisma quotient. And see what I mean by that is that you have a wide range of emotions. You're not just angry all the time and a rage monster, but you're also not collapsing all the time and being sad or being just bland and getting the job done. But you are actually able to express all the emotions on the spectrum. Now this of course leads to him wondering also what is going on inside of himself. So he's going to go on his own treasure hunt of emotions, of course. But also it causes a welcome state change. See, oftentimes we sort of hit a plateau and of course it gets like a little boring because something inside of us is saying there is more. Now whether the person decides to express that more, that's a different story. What limiting beliefs you have around that, that's a different story. However, like we unconsciously know that there is more. You know, sometimes that's why people get divorced. It's not actually because there's necessarily something wrong, but just the marriage has reached a plateau and they just don't know how to break through their fears to become more intimate, become more visible, become more emotionally connected. So what I, for example, look like for me was like really taking some risks. So for example, I could do something really silly and I would walk into my husband's office and just say yippee. Just literally just jump up like that and then walk right back into my office. Now you may think what? That's just crazy. Like by the way the more judgmental you are about that, the more judgmental you are about that part inside of yourself that just, you know, doesn't allow yourself to do what you really feel you want to do. You know, in that moment at a spontaneous outburst of joy. Look, I have a 2 year old, so I get this spontaneity that doesn't make any sense, but where you just start dancing in the middle of the street and it is no reason, no rhyme for that other than that you just like spontaneously inspired and you act on it and this is extremely attractive. And again breaks that state. Now the next feminine trait that most men can't resist is actually owning your weird. Weird in quotation marks. And what that of course means is like, what are people considering weird, right? Like maybe you're dressing weird, maybe you're talking weird, maybe you have some weird beliefs about things, right? But like when a man is really attracted to a woman, it's because she like almost like carries on her T shirt, if that makes sense, you know? Or, you know, you may be in traffic and she just gets out of the car and does a dance. Because, you know, why not, you're sitting in traffic and why not bring some joy to a party, you know? Or maybe she had a funny grunting noise when she laughs and maybe she sounds like, like a pig when she laughs or whatever the case may be. So it's not so much about what the sound is, but it's how she's carrying herself with that, you know. Because back in the day, you know, one man was telling me that I laugh too much or kiss too much or something like that, right? And I just owned that already. I just already owned my weird. So I didn't really know. But there's nothing to say other than, yeah, you're right, I do, I do, you know, do all the things a lot. And he's like, oh, no, no, no, no. It's all, I love it, I love it. It's great, right? Because he was so enamored with, with me owning my weird. And because of that, that of course comes from doing your shadow work, which is really breaking through the limiting beliefs that you have around the things that you judge about yourself. And this is a huge conversation, of course, but that's sort of the first step. And then because of that, he became really attracted to me and he pursued me, called me, text me, asked me out on dates all the time, right? Because it is irresistible to a man. Now what you may notice by now, it's not so much what you do, but with how confidently you do it, how much are you supporting yourself? How much are you advocating for yourself and and not necessarily like in a harsh way or in a demeaning way. You know, I'm watching right now. Love is blind, and not in an offensive way, but actually in an embodied and a joyful and spontaneous and like kind of a laughter, a lightness kind of way. Next, if you haven't yet, take my free love quiz and virtual coaching session by simply hopping over to getlovequiz.com to get a committed, connected and long term relationship that you desire fast, without trust issues, frustration, and attracting any more emotionally unavailable men. Otherwise. You can also hop right here into the comment and description section and grab the link there. I had so much fun shooting this video. Lots of love and I will talk to you very soon. Bye bye.










