A short coaching monologue arguing that feminine vulnerability and openness act as receptivity that attracts men by allowing them to feel received, trusted, and able to provide. The speaker connects vulnerability to masculine/feminine polarity, claiming this dynamic produces attraction, chemistry, and sexual desire and advises sharing emotions respectfully using feminine communication.
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Men are turned on by a woman's vulnerability and openness. The reason why is because vulnerability is the ultimate receptivity. It allows a man, from his masculine energy, to feel received by you, which means you are accepting him as a man. You're accepting his gifts that he has to give and provide for you as the hero. And also you are showing him that you trust and respect and admire and appreciate him. So you're sending so many positive signals to a man when you are open and vulnerable. Sharing your heart, letting him know your needs, your desires, letting him know about your fears, your frustrations, but doing so in a way that is respectful, using feminine communication. Because that creates that dance of polarity, the masculine, feminine poles, which creates attraction. It creates interest, chemistry, passion. It's a sexual polarity that is formed when a woman is open and receptive to a man in that way, even if it feels scary, even if it feels like that stretch beyond the comfort zone, but allows a man to feel it, excited to be able to provide for her, that she actually wants to show him that vulnerable side of her, that heart, and allow him in. So that is one of the reasons why men are extremely attracted to vulnerability in women.