Women kill attraction by treating men like girlfriends, expecting them to handle emotional labor and parse social nuance. The fix: process feelings with female friends instead, let him be the knight to your damsel, and keep opposite energies alive.
Here's another way women treat men like girlfriends. They expect them to care about the same details that girlfriends care about. Let me tell you about everything that happened with Sarah yesterday. So Sarah said this thing to Jennifer, and then Jennifer told me that Sarah actually meant something else when she said that to her. And then I was thinking about what Sarah might have really meant by that. Do you think she was being passive-aggressive with me? He probably doesn't care, and that's okay. That's what your girlfriends are for. He's sitting there nodding, but internally he's probably thinking about literally anything else. Did he lock the garage door? What's for dinner tonight? Was Die Hard really a Christmas movie? Your man cares about making you happy. Your man cares about you feeling good. But in order to do that, he doesn't need to care about every little detail in the same way your girlfriends do. So here's what you do instead. Spend quality time with your girlfriends that lift you up. Get that feminine energy connection filled. But when you're with your man, be the woman to his man. Be the damsel to his knight in shining armor. Not just a girlfriend to another girlfriend. Not his therapist, not his emotional support human, Be his woman, because the Law of Polarity states that opposite energies attract. Masculine attracts feminine, feminine attracts masculine. But when you're both in the same energy, there's no polarity, there's no attraction, there's no passion. It's like trying to connect two positive magnets. They just repel each other.
