This Makes Him EAGERLY Text Back & Re-Connect With You

Brody Boyd teaches women how to text a man who's gone quiet. Send short permission-based messages like
Questions this video answers
Brody Boyd
2024-05-04
"May I ask for a phone call?" and "May I share something with you?"
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How to get a guy to text you back. If you have a man who hasn't been getting back to you, you were interested, you had a connection, you were maybe even in a relationship for a long term period, and he hasn't got back to you for a while, a couple days, couple weeks, maybe a couple months, and you want to restart, you want to spark up a connection, spark up an interaction and have him actually be attracted, interested, and most importantly, and get back to you. So in this training, we're going to cover how to do that so you can have a man excited, interested and wanting to connect. I'm Brody Boyd, if you don't know me already, and for over 20 years, combined with my wife, Antia, we've been helping thousands of successful women all over the world to get a loving, long term and committed relationship. So let's dive right into it. If you want to get a man to text you back, you want to start by creating some intrigue. You want to send him a simple short message will generate some intrigue, likely get him to want to know what the intrigue is about. And also in a way that's feminine, that's receptive, that shows him that you're not attacking him, holding any grudges, trying to control him, trying to lead him, trying to be in your masculine, but actually coming from a feminine place that is pulling him in, that's magnetizing him to you. So we're going to start this message that you're going to send to him which, with a very simple text, which would be. There's actually two different variations on this. The first one would be may I ask for a phone call? May I ask for a phone call? The reason why this is important, and this can really help you to get him to respond back in a good, positive way, is because most likely you've had situation with him in the past that things have went sour. Either he pulled away, he ghosted on you, you did something that upset him, or you broke it off, or he broke it off. So it's a simple request. It's a simple request to get on the phone because the best way to actually reconnect and to restart a relationship is actually over the phone. Even better would be in person. But for now, depending on the relationship, it's probably best to at least get on the phone. Now here's the thing, you might be like, well, if I, if I send him that, he's not going to want to get on the phone. He may not want to get on the phone, he may not Even respond to the text part of coming from your feminine energy. Because femininity, feminine energy is about the process, not about the outcome. So you want to enjoy and embrace the process and the journey of simply sharing and being in your feminine. Feminine energy is about being. Masculine energy is about doing. Feminine energy is about telling. Our feminine energy is about asking. Masculine energy is about telling. So you're simply asking, being vulnerable, which is feminine. Opening up and starting opening the door for an interaction here he may not say anything or he might say, yes, let's hop on the phone. Or he might say, good to hear from you. You have to be detached from the outcome. Whatever he might say, you're doing this for yourself. You're doing this for practicing being vulnerably open in your feminine and opening the door, giving a, giving a request, putting it out there that he will likely respond to. Here's the thing is it's also generating intrigue. He's the first thought that's going to pop into his mind is I wonder what she wants to talk about. What does she want to talk on the phone for? What does she, what does she want to discuss? What's going on? It's generating questions, which is good. You're creating that intrigue open loop that he's going to want to close. Now the other variation, if you feel like there's no way he's going to want to talk on the phone, and this is the other thing, you can start with this first question may ask for a phone call. If he doesn't respond after a day or two, you can then send the second message. So the second variation is may I share something with you? May I share something with you? It does the same, has the same purpose as the first message. It is opening the door is creating intrigue, feminine mystique, feminine intrigue. And he's likely going to respond to that one as well. He's likely going to say sure, either one. If you have any real connection with him in the past, any level of care for your heart, he's likely going to say sure. And he may also say sure, just out of curiosity or because you're starting to create more of that masculine feminine polarity, which is the only thing that really creates attraction, chemistry, polarity, love, devotion from a man long term. So you're already practicing one element of feminine communication, which is asking for what you want, asking permission and saying, may I? Can I? Are you able to. So asking may I? Which is the best form of it, may I have a phone call? Or may I Share something with you, then he's likely going to respond, sure. And then from there the best thing to do is if you ask for a phone call, you'll say when works best for you. He'll give you some times and you say, okay, great. You set up the call and then you can call him then because he's basically giving you the time and he's starting to help you in that process of leading to the call. And you know, you could even try, may I ask if you can call me at that time? So if you want to try, even be more in your feminine may, ask if you can call me, then he'll probably say, sure. It depends on what kind of level of connection you have. He might just be like, no, I'm not sure about this. So you may have to still call him. Then you call him and you're going to discuss the next part of the conversation. Or if he said, if you said, may I share something with you? And he said, sure, you're going to then start the next part of the conversation, which is you want to start opening up, being vulnerable and sharing your heart, your emotions and your feelings with him. This is about feminine energy here. This is what we're practicing. Feminine communication, feminine polarity is going to start bringing him closer to you. And so feminine polarity, feminine openness is about sharing your feelings and that's going to start draw, creating the attraction, creating the polarity. So you're going to say however you're feeling in that moment, I feel sad or I feel anxious, or I feel hurt, or I feel grateful or I feel angry. Usually angry. Anger is a primary, is not the primary emotion, it's a secondary emotion. Usually there's a deeper emotion underneath it like sadness or anxiety or fear. So you want to try to share the primary emotion with him. That's you practicing opening your heart again. This is going to be best if you can do it in person, on the phone or via text. But if it's gotten to just being on the text and on the phone, you would say this. And if you so over text, you would say the same thing. Same thing, I feel sad. Then you wait for him to respond. You're letting for waiting for him to lead. Now you've shared and you've exposed your feminine, vulnerable, open heart. And he's going to then take the lead most likely to the next step. And he's going to ask you, why are you feeling sad or why are you feeling hurt or why are you feeling anxious? And then you're going to Share with him the problem, the problem that you might be experiencing. Again, men love to solve problems. Men love to hear, feel your emotions when they're done, from a feminine, open, vulnerable place where you're not trying to tell him what to do or get him to do something or being attached to the outcome. Because again, throughout this process, you have to practice detaching from the outcome. You're doing this to practice your feminine energy. You're sharing, you're being open, you're being vulnerable. And you're not trying to get something from him, you're not trying to get him to do something, but you're doing it simply to share. And whatever happens, it's okay. Whenever, whatever happens, you have to just let it go. Let it go. And so then he's likely going to want to say, you know, why are you feeling that way? And then you can share with him the problem, such as, you know, we haven't spoken for several days now, several weeks now, and you know, I, I'm telling myself a story that you no longer want to stay connected, or there was something that I did wrong that pushed you away, or that I'm telling myself a story that you are, whatever happened, whatever the situation is, you know, the situation happened, I feel bad about it. I'm telling myself a story that I ruined it, I ruined the relationship. Or that maybe you never wanted a relationship. Whatever the problem is, you try to be authentic with what the problem is. But you said as a story that you're telling yourself, which is true, you're always telling yourself a story and then you tell him what that is, and then it makes you feel sad and you're not sure what to do and you let him respond to that. Now he knows the problem, he knows what the story is, and he's likely going to want to help. Men love to solve problems. You've been feminine, you've been open, you've been vulnerable, he's starting to feel your heart. Most likely you've been very respectful by asking permission, showing you're a high value woman who values herself, who believes she's worthy of having a man give her what she asks for, or to help have a man solve a problem, or to have a man want to step up and want to pursue her. So then he's likely going to want to do that. Now you have to be again, detached from the outcome. This is the no games method, because here you're being just honest and vulnerable. You're not playing any games, you're just laying it out there in a feminine way where you're not telling him what to do, you're not attacking him, you're not blaming him, you're not criticizing him, you're not being in your masculine and trying to lead, control, manipulate him. You're simply sharing, being vulnerable, open hearted, which is the most magnetic thing you can do as a woman to attract a masculine man who wants to care and devote himself to you. Then he's likely going to respond, however he responds, he's going to want to share his feelings or he's going to want to try to solve the problem and he's going to want to talk about it. And one thing you can also say is, you can say, may I have some help? Like I don't know what to do, this is the problem, this is what happened, this is how I felt, this is the story I told myself, this is why I felt that, that emotion and I don't know what to do. And then depending on how things go, you could also say, may I, may I ask for some help? Men love to solve problems, men love to help, men love to provide, men love to give, which is the masculine energy. Again, you're creating that masculine feminine polarity here. He's likely going to want to help, he's likely going to want to start to try to solve the issue and he's going to be more attracted to you. No matter what happens, as long as there's some level of care that was already there, or he's not an emotionally damaged, mentally damaged, narcissist, sociopath or just a broken man, then he's likely going to respond well. He's likely going to want to have a conversation with you and who knows where that can lead. That could potentially now that now you've shown him a different way of operating, a different way of operating from your feminine, ideally having coaching support and us helping you in this process as well. Because there's so many other things you can do beforehand before this conversation to get into your feminine energy, to practice this, to, to prepare yourself energetically that he's going to be desiring you and wanting to connect and have a better relationship because you'll be coming from a healthier place at that point, then he's likely going to respond well, you can have a connection, you can have a situation where he starts pursuing you, he starts asking you out, he wants to hang out, he wants to do things or not. You have to be detached from the outcome. This goes for regardless of what you would send to him, you always want to practice detaching from the outcome, committing to the process, being in your feminine, being open, being vulnerable, and letting the cards fall where they may. So that is how you get a guy to text you back. And that's also how you get a guy to start pursuing you and loving you and wanting to devote himself to you. That's the first part of it. That's just a little tiny piece I gave you of feminine communication, feminine polarity, and what's possible for you now. If you'd really like to master this, make sure to take our free Feminine Polarity Quiz to get a loving, long term and committed relationship with a man that you desire by clicking on the link in the comments or description below this training or going to femininepolarity. Com Femininepolarity. Com. Much love. Hope this was helpful and I will talk to you again very soon in our future training videos. Take care. Bye bye.










