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A dating coach shares a story about a guy from Santa Monica who paid for dinner, and how that moment made her question what attraction really means when it conflicts with her feminist values.
A dating coach shares a story about a guy from Santa Monica who paid for dinner, and how that moment made her question what attraction really means when it conflicts with her feminist values.
This is what it looks like when a man is actually interested in you guys. I went on a date this week and I felt the feminism leaving my body. I go on dates with a lot of men and women who, you know, live over here. There's always a negotiation about who pays. And that's great. I like to pay for people, all that. But what I will say is that I sort of fell into going on a date with the most guys guy I've ever been on a date with. And he's from west, west, you know, Santa Monica. He's a bro, right? A guy's guy is usually not my type. Like, I cannot remember the last time that I went on a date with like a straight bros bro. You know what I'm saying? But it befell me. It befell me in an organic fashion. So I'm on this date with this guy. And the thing about a guy's guy is he's putting his card down, he's paying for everything. And I really just. It sort of activated something feral in me. I'm not gonna lie. He went to like another bar and he went. He was gonna go to the bathroom, so I was getting prepared to pay for our drinks because he's been pay night. Of course I'm gonna pay for the next round. But as he's going to leave for the bathroom, he turns to me and he hands me his credit card and he goes, here's my card. Get us whatever. It might be time for me to get away from all these, you know, liberal snowflakes on the east side.
