A relationship coach explains how to activate a partner's masculine core through unconditional respect and vulnerability. She contrasts masculine needs with feminine needs and outlines a 90-day process to build the respect that encourages a man to show love, care, and devotion.
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Five natural ways to make a man fear losing. You get into the positive love and respect cycle with him. Now. What this means is masculine energy craves respect, feminine energy craves love. These are some of the biggest cravings of the feminine core versus the masculine core. So your man, if he's a healthy man, if he's not a deeply broken man, if he has any connection to his masculine core, one of the most important things to him in his life and especially in your relationship, is to feel that you respect him. Respect can involve admiration, it can involve honoring him, can involve revering him, trusting him, valuing him as a man. And when you do that to him unconditionally to start, which we have a process for this, so don't freak out yet. There's a 90 day process that we recommend for you to start building up to that and showing him that respect. If it's a man you really like and you want to have a long term committed relationship with, and he's not a deeply broken man that is abusive or you feel unsafe with, you can begin the process of being vulnerable with him and starting to show unconditional respect to him in different ways that revere him, that make him feel like your hero, and then he will actually start to step into that role. And when he steps into that role, when he is activated within his masculine core, his natural response is to start to show love, care, adoration and devotion for you.