Unlock His Heart With These 6 Irresistible Behaviors

Six things women do that guys love. If you'd like to discover what men absolutely crave, they desire so much in a woman that it can even make them addicted to said woman. Then you want to learn these secrets. I'm Brody Boyd with Magnetize youe man. And for over 20 years, combined with my wife Antia, we've been helping thousands of successful women all over the world to get a loving, long term and committed relationship with a man they desire. So let's go ahead and dive right in. So the sixth powerful principle here is to be his cheerleader, not his coach. So I want you to visualize for a second your man being on a court, a football field, and just standing there, living his life, being in the arena. And now you have two options in this scenario. You could either be his cheerleader waving your pom poms, dancing, kicking your legs up in the air, or you could be his coach telling him what to do, blowing the whistle, directing him, leading him, guiding him, correcting him, teaching him. And which of those roles do you feel that man is going to be more attracted to, more romantically attracted to especially? Well, I think it's pretty obvious. So you can use this analogy in your relationship and ask yourself when you're tempted to want to give him advice, to want to help him be his mommy or be his therapist in some way, or his coach, say, am I being his cheerleader or his coach right now? And choose to be his cheerleader, which means you're not trying to fix him. You're not trying to change him. You're not trying to direct him and tell him what to do or lead him. Instead, you are supporting him. You are believing in him. You are rooting him on. You are seeing him as a strong, powerful, capable man who can achieve great things in his life. And you're there. You're there. You're his prize. You're the treasure, you're the gift. At the end of all of it, where he gets to come back after making the touchdown, after achieving the goal, or killing the dragon or building the empire, he gets to come back to you to be his precious, sexy cheerleader that he gets to enjoy and have in his life. And that's going to feel much more fulfilling to him as a man and fulfilling to you as well because you won't have to do all that work of trying to change him and being his coach and being his mommy. And now you get that polarity back and the relationship flourishes. The fifth thing that women do that guys love is to allow him to be the expert and trust in his capabilities. Similar to not being his coach. This principle is about allowing him to figure out problems on his own, to allow him to find the capabilities within himself, within his mind, within his sphere of influence to solve the problem. And this is trusting in his capabilities, trusting that he can make it happen. Similar to an analogy of driving. If you ever have driven with a man, are you the type of person that sits in the side of the car and is constantly telling him what to do, how he needs to drive, where he should turn, that he can't make this exit, that he's going too fast or going too slow, that is you visibly and demonstratively not trusting in his capabilities as a man. And this is again just another metaphor for your whole relationship with him. Are you trusting him to drive you safely, to get you to where you need to go? Or if you really can't trust him because you're like, well, he's just a horrible driver, quote unquote, he's a horrible man. He's not capable. He needs help. He doesn't know what he's doing. But. Well, then I would pose this question to you. Is this really a man you want to be with? Because if you can't trust your man in those moments, if you can't let him make those decisions on his own, figure out those problems without you needing to step in and guide him and help him, what kind of relationship is that? Is that really a man that you want to be with long term? And rather than fixing him, maybe it's time to look at actually stepping away from that relationship. However, before you get to that point, we have a lot of tools that we teach our women with magnetic feminine polarity, magnetic feminine communication that can help inspire your man to actually be a stronger man, to be a more resourceful man. And it first starts with just stopping what you're doing, stop the masculine behavior, stop trying to do those things for him, stop guiding him, and stop potentially nagging at him, criticizing, blaming him, et cetera, because that's going to tell him unconsciously you're not a capable man. I don't see you as a capable man. And therefore that is who you are. And he's going to be more likely to live into that potential, live into that vision that you have for him rather than a capable version. And he's never going to get that inspiration within himself or that ability to see himself as a strong man, to actually break through and be that for you. So before we get to our next point, if you haven't yet. I highly recommend taking our free Magnetize youe Man quiz to get a loving, long term and committed relationship with a man you want fast. Where you'll get our custom coaching recommendations, master the principles of Magnetic Feminine Communication, Magnetic Feminine Polarity and get access to our Magnetic Feminine 90 Day Challenge by clicking the link in the description or comments below or or you can go to our website magnetizeyourman.com as well to get that. Now the fourth thing that women do that guys love is to appreciate his desire to protect and provide. Every man has a masculine core deep inside and all that depends on is how connected your man is to that masculine core. Is he really seeing himself and leading himself from that place of being that protector and provider? But every man has that instinct within him. So. So what you can do to awaken that more within him is to appreciate that whenever he is doing something that is protecting you, that is helping you to feel safe, that is making you feel good in some way, or that he is providing for you, that he is giving to you, he is helping you in some way, he is offering you some kind of attention or love or support or maybe some gifts. Maybe he's solving problems for you, maybe he's leading you and planning things and taking on amazing experiences. Whatever he's doing to protect and provide for you, to recognize that, to see it and make it a big deal to begin with. Over time it'll just become normal for you both. But in the beginning, start making it a really big deal when he does those things and really light him up. Throw a celebration, throw a party. But have it be authentic. Not like a sarcastic thing like woohoo, you finally did something for me. Yay. I'm so happy. But actually celebrating him and saying you're an amazing man. Thank you so much. This makes me feel so safe whenever you do that for me. Maybe it's a smile, maybe it's a big hug, maybe it's having sex with him. If you're at that point in the relationship and showing him your appreciation that way. But whatever it is that you find called to within yourself to really show him that appreciation, that honor, and especially how he made you feel, that's going to help inspire him more into his masculine leadership to become that man for you and to feel that he's winning, to feel that he has a path to victory, that he's doing a good job in some ways and then he'll want to do that more and more and more because of the positive association you're building within him and the inspiration and the vision that you're also showing to him of what kind of man he is and will be. The third powerful thing women do that guys love is honor his masculinity. So what this means is to see him as a man, to see all the differences between the two of you, his masculine core, because masculine energy is the opposite of feminine energy. Feminine energy is the opposite of masculine energy. So looking at all the differences between the two of you and how he is different as a man, how his body may be different, how his temperament may be different, how his skills, his knowledge, his abilities may be different than you, and to specifically look for those things that honor him as a masculine man in your life. So his abilities to lead, we talked about protecting, providing his abilities to solve problems, his abilities to make decisions, his abilities to please you, to give to you, to really help plan things and show care for your heart, these are all things you want to look at and emphasize when you honor him as a man. Look at those things you can really honor and say, wow, this is a huge gift in my life, this man and his offerings that he has for me. And I'm going to really value it. Because men, deep down, they all want to feel needed for what they bring to the table, for his abilities to be that strong man for you, to be a hero and to want to make you happy. So he needs to feel that he's needed in your life, that he has that value, that it's honored and it's appreciated and respected and admired and. And that's going to lift him up in many different ways. That's going to make him feel like he is your superhero, he is your Superman, and he's going to want to continue to be that for you over and over again. Second powerful thing that women do that guys love is to accept him fully and expect the best of him. So what this means is your man has a lot of flaws. Likely he's not perfect. You're not perfect either, and that's beautiful. We are perfectly imperfect. And so to accept him from. For who he is as a man, flaws in everything, and see that he's a work in progress, that's going to help him feel really trusted and accepted by you, really feel that he is now your man, that you are taking him in as the total package, that you're not trying to change him, you're not trying to make him be something that he's not, you're not trying to mold him into your perfect man, but simply accepting him as he is. And the paradox for this is that when you accept him fully for who he is, he is much more likely to be inspired within himself to want to become a better man for you to want to do that on his own. Rather than feeling that he's being pushed into it, he's now feeling pulled into it because he's being inspired by your acceptance. He's feeling that, wow, this woman, I really want to make her happy. She seems to be giving me everything I need as a man, which is acceptance, appreciation, honor for my masculine abilities. Now I want to be even more for her, I want to give even more for her. I want to be the best man I can be. And then that leads us into the next piece, which is to also expect the best of him. So to accept him for who he is, flaws and all, and to expect that he does want to show care for your heart, that he does want to be a better man, that he does want to make you happy. And you can do that through your language. You can do that through feminine communication by actually asking him for the things you want, asking him respectfully and vulnerably for help. For example, asking could I have a phone call or may I have a hug? Or would it be okay if we spend some time over the weekend, I'd love to see you again, or can you help me with my car? It's having issues and I'm not sure what to do. These kind of requests show that you expect him to want to help you because only a high value woman believes that she's worthy of actually having a man. Want to be her hero, want to be her superhero, want to help her and give to her and make her happy. So by asking for that specifically what you actually want, doing it in the right way, you help him to see that you do see the best in him. You do see that he's capable, you do see him as a powerful, valuable man. And, and you're asking to receive him. You're asking for his help and assistance and gifts in your life. And that shows him that you do see how great of a man he is capable of being. And the first powerful thing that women do that guys love is to give him the most powerful aphrodisiac, respect. And what you want honey, you've got it and what you need baby, you've got it All I'm asking for is a little respect. It's a powerful song, became very famous from Aretha Franklin. However, it was actually Otis Redding, a man who wrote that song originally. And it shows how powerful that desire for respect is in a man, that he craves it, he desires it more than anything else from his woman. And if a man is feeling disrespected in a relationship, or there's just simply no respect available, he's going to start looking for respect elsewhere, similar to how if a woman is feeling unloved in a relationship, she's going to start eventually looking for that love elsewhere. So it's one of the most powerful things a man craves in a relationship, A powerful aphrodisiac that actually does turn him on as well, because that desire is so strong in his heart if he's connected to his masculine core. Now, if a man is more feminine or disconnected from his masculine core, he's not going to desire that as much. He's going to want you to take care of him. He's going to want you to cherish and adore him. However, if he's connected to his masculine core, he's going to want to provide and protect and to be respected for that, to be admired for that, to be honored for that. So when you show him that respect, mostly through not doing disrespectful behaviors such as treating him like a child, mothering him, telling him what to do, complaining, nagging, criticizing him, shaming him, blaming him, emasculating him. There's so many different ways that a woman could potentially be disrespectful to a man in a relationship. And over time, that erodes his feelings of love and devotion for that woman. The more disrespectful a woman is towards a man, the more unloving he's going to become. However, the more respectful you can be to your man, assuming he's a healthy man, the more loving and adoring and devotional he's going to be towards you. It's a natural byproduct of masculine feminine energy coming together. So to show him that respect and to not be penetrating him energetically and telling him what to do, you're going to create a lot of momentum in your relationship. That can create an upward spiral of growth of love and devotion in your relationship. That'll make you so much happier, but it'll also make him so much happier, because now he's getting his deepest needs met in the relationship as a man. And you, conversely, are also getting your deepest needs met in the relationship as a woman, because he's going to start showing that love and care for you as a reciprocal. And over time, your man is going to start shifting more and more into that healthy, masculine role for you. And if he doesn't? Typically, we see this with our 90 day challenge that we teach our women where we help you to actually shift him over time. If he hasn't shifted over that period of time into a healthy, loving, devotional man, then you're likely dealing unfortunately with a broken man or simply with a man who has no feelings of care for you. However, we have to identify this and we first want to get you on the right track and make sure your side of the street is cleaned up so that we can actually draw him in. We can have him start craving and even obsessing over you because of the kind of woman you are, the kind of woman you are being connected to your core as a woman deep inside, being authentic in that. And that'll create that powerful cycle that'll keep drawing you guys closer and closer over time to have an incredible, long lasting relationship together. Much love. Hope this was helpful and I look forward to talking to you in our next powerful training very soon.