Why Men LOVE Feminine Women

Your feminine energy triggers his fantasies. So what happens when a man meets a feminine woman and when she's in her feminine energy, it creates an imprint within his system of that polar opposite. That polar opposite energy that creates that attraction, that creates that juice and that passion and that chemistry. And what happens is that imprint tends to circulate within his system and within his mind. So after he's done interacting with you, he can't help but start to remember and fantasize about that energy. He longs for it again. He wishes to have it back in his life. Now, Ovid, the poet, talked about the process of crystallization. Which means, he used an analogy in ancient Germany when they would throw sticks into the salt mines. And the sticks would sit in the salt mines for several weeks and the kids would pull the sticks out and the sticks would be covered with salt crystals. And he uses this analogy as the process in which we fall in love with somebody that we don't actually fall in love with them when we're with them. We fall in love with them when we're away from them, thinking about them. So when you are in your feminine energy and using magnetic feminine polarity, magnetic feminine communication, you create this imprint within a man's mind and his heart and his system that activates him. And when he's away from you, he will start to fantasize about you. He'll start to long for that time with you again and want to be reconnected. And this is the seventh thing that feminine women do to a man's mind. Hi, I'm Brody Boyd with Magnetize your man. And for over 20 years, combined with my wife Antio, we've been helping thousands of successful women all over the world to get a loving, long term and committed relationship with a man they desire. So let's go ahead and continue with the things, the impacts that a feminine woman has on a man's mind and number six is it increases his desire for conquest. When you're in your feminine energy, you activate within him his masculine energy. Because the law of polarity states that opposite energies attract. Masculine energy attracts feminine energy. Feminine energy attracts masculine energy. And, and so when you're in your feminine, you activate within him his masculine instinct. And the masculine instinct is part of it is a big part of it is to conquer, to expand his territory, to make, make some success happen, whatever that means for him. Whether that's winning your heart and becoming your man, becoming the man that you pick. Or it could be getting a touchdown. It could be that career goal that he has. In mind, it could be buying the new car or, you know, in like the ancient times, actually expanding his kingdom and conquering the world, like Alexander the Great. So you activate within a man the same instinct that lives within every man. I think it was Napoleon Bonaparte that said every man, every man a king. Every man has within him a king. And so it's, it's in our lineage. Every man has it within his lineage that we are in some ways all the children of kings and queens, because generally in history, those legacies were the ones that continued into the future. And so within his kingly instinct, his masculine instinct, he's going to want to conquer, he's going to want to achieve, he's going to want to expand, and you inspire him into that. So you inspire him to want to be a better partner for you, to want to actually win your heart, to make you happy, to want to please you in all the ways that you want to be pleased, that he will feel activated in that, and he'll feel excited about that, he'll feel good about that when you're in your feminine energy. And then also you inspire him to just be a more successful man, to be a better provider, to be achieving more financially, to be healthier, to be stronger, to just want to be more for you, because he will want to make you happy. So that's a big part of what happens to a man's mind when he meets a feminine woman. The fifth thing is you deepen his emotional world. So the masculine energy is more of focus. It is consciousness. It is him wanting to be directed into his achievement of whatever it is he's trying to achieve in his. In his life, which happens to be a lot of thinking, a lot of brain power, a lot of solving problems. So that is masculine energy. However, feminine energy is about the openness, the vulnerability, the flow of emotions, the experience. And so because a more, the more masculine a man is, and the more you activate a man in his masculine, the more he's going to actually not be as attached to, to his emotions. He's not going to be as connected to his own emotional world because he's become the hero. He's become a problem solver. He's become wanting to make you happy, wanting to plan things, wanting to make decisions, wanting to lead and move the relationship forward, move your life forward as a family. So you become like his, I call it his surrogate heart in a way. When you're a feminine woman, you become his gateway into deeper emotions. He actually is able to experience the range of emotions that rainbow, that color. Because for a man, his mind and his emotional life, the more masculine he is, it's more of like a black and white experience. It is either do or do not. Do not. There is no try. He is clear in his thinking. He is. He is focused, and he is oriented on whatever he is focused on in that moment. And that's why they say men are not great at generally not great at multitasking or handling multiple things at once, handling multiple relationships at once. They tend to be more single, focused and. And engaged in whatever activity they're engaged in. And you'll see this sometime with, like, young boys when they're, like, playing with their toys and whatnot. There's a story of Jeff Bezos when he was a child. He was, like, playing with something, he was building something. And the teacher was like, come on, we gotta go, we gotta leave. And he wasn't even listening because he was so focused on the task. And the teacher literally had to just pick him up out of his seat, like with the chair, pick him up and move him over to the next activity, which was probably lunch or something. And men tend to be a lot like that. They're so focused on whatever they're focusing on that sometimes they just zone out the rest of the world. It's kind of a black and white experience for them. But you as the feminine, you become the color. You bring the color into his life, and you bring that depth and that range of emotions and emotional experience, which is why it's so important to learn and master magnetic feminine communication that we will teach you, so that you can actually communicate to him in a way that shares that experience of your emotions with him, that you can actually communicate how you're feeling at any moment. But doing so in a respectful way that he's able to receive, that he's able to actually engage with and want to engage with. Because there's no ugly emotions. There are only ugly behaviors. And depending on what you do with those emotions will determine if you push him away or if you pull him close. But the emotion itself is always going to pull him close, because that is your feminine energy. That's your magnetism as a woman, and your open heart, your vulnerability, and into the depth of your own feeling and your body in your womb. That is what's going to allow him to connect to that energy from his masculine and feel attraction, feel polarity, feel that spark. And so he also gets to experience the range of emotions. Like, he might not be very familiar with the feelings of desire or longing or frustration or anger or even more subtle emotions like regret or disappointment or sensuality. The, the senses also the sensual feelings that are in your body and then you're in your heart and you become that for him. You can become his gateway to feel those emotions, to feel the senses, to expand into all those different ranges of the. The world really. Because as David Data says, feminine energy is like the world. It is like the ocean, the waves, the weather. Masculine energy is more of like the consciousness. It is the container, it is the awareness that runs through all of the physical universe. So you become his experience of reality. You become his experience of the world as the feminine. And that's a huge gift you give to a. And it makes him feel that now he is a whole person. He is now an integrated being because he can be the masculine. The, the mind, the thinking process, the goal achievement process, the logic and reasoning, compounding power. And then you can become the emotional depth, the intuition, the creativity, the flow, the cyclical nature of the universe. You can become that for him. And now he can become whole and he feels like, wow, now I am complete. You'll see. Hear that saying in, in movies from Tom Cruise often, you complete me. Well, it's kind of true. It is that energetic completion that'll happen when a feminine energy and a masculine energy come together in polarity. So next, before we get to our next point, if you haven't yet, I highly recommend taking our free Magnetize youe Man quiz to get a loving, long term and committed relationship with a man you desire fast. To get this customized for your situation and start mastering magnetic feminine polarity. Magnetic feminine energy. Which you can get by clicking the link in the description or comments below or going to our website magnetizeyourman.com all right, the fourth thing that a feminine woman does to a man's mind, especially a masculine man's mind, is you inspire him to be his best self that we talked about earlier. But it's not just for himself. He will become his best version of himself and he'll be inspired into that for you. Because when a man has any level of care for a woman and the more masculine he is, his compass is going to be set in the direction of wanting to make you happy. His goal in the relationship will be, is my woman happy or not? If you're not happy, then he's going to feel like his compass is. He's totally going off in the wrong direction and something is off and he's failing. He's failing as a man. He's failing in life. And if he can't find a way, a path to make you happy either within himself or from you, communicating in a way that gives him clear guidance on how to make him happy, doing it respectfully, using magnetic feminine communication, then he's going to be guided in the right way and say, okay, here's my path to victory, here's how I can make her happy. And I want to become a better man. He's inspired within himself then, because you never want to control a man, you never want to tell him what to do, or try to manipulate or change him, because that's going to be you coming from masculine energy. But you can inspire him through your feminine energy, through magnetic feminine polarity. You can inspire him to want to do that on his own, to want to become a better man on his own and change for himself and for you, he'll naturally want to do that. And then that's going to make him want to be his best self. And he'll start improving in different ways, getting his health in order, getting it educated. However, he needs to educate himself through becoming a better man, becoming a better partner, maybe getting therapy, maybe going to a men's group, maybe reading books or going through courses or retreats, etc. That might involve him talking to his buddies who are more successful than he is or have better, happier relationships than he does. To help him become a better man for you and become a better partner. And he'll also want to succeed in his career in different areas as well that we talked about and make more strides in that and have bigger ambitions, to be a better provider, to be able to be a partner that can help you to feel safe and protected and happy as possible, as comfortable as possible. So he's going to want to do that in all those different areas. The third thing is it increases sexual polarization. So masculine feminine energy is not just the energy that attracts a man to a woman in the emotional sense, because that is very key. Because every man has within him a masculine core deep inside. And every woman has within her a feminine core deep inside. Because it's built into us, in our DNA and really how God designed it as men and women were meant to be self actualized within this, to be able to be their truest and purest version of themselves, energetically leading from that energy, from that core within them, to have great relationships, to have a great life, to feel like life is just flowing and they're not having to constantly fight and have to be something that you're not, like, oh, I have to Be a boss, babe. I have to achieve. I have to do all these things. Or as a man. Oh. I have to, you know, connect more to my emotional life, and I have to soften and be vulnerable. Well, yeah, but you're also losing your masculine connection. Men also need to be providers and achievers and strong and able to protect the ones that they love. Because if not, then that energy is missing from the family. That energy is missing from themselves. They're disconnected from that warrior instinct that they have inside. And of course, they don't have to do this. Nobody has to do anything. But to have happy, healthy relationships that are polarized, that is a key. Now, the key with sexual polarization is that energy, the masculine, feminine will create sexual attraction very strongly. And it's why books like 50 Shades of Gray and basically every romance novel, you've probably read some of these, and maybe a lot of these, I think a lot of women are actually addicted to these. But the reason why is because in these novels, generally there's a very strong sexual polarization between the male character and the female character. And you'll see this in a lot of movies as well. But the reason why is because of those sexual polar, polar opposite energies. The man is typically a strong male. He's sometimes what you might call an alpha male. He is. I don't really like that term, but archetypal male is another version of it. He has a strong, wild man archetype, a wild man energy. He's a hero. Typically. He's achieving some things in his life. Some. Usually a lot of these stories, he's like a billionaire or a CEO or a tech guru or a king, you know, in the. In the historical romance or account or a duke or something. But the reason why is because he's in his mask and. Right. Masculine energy is about being a provider. It's about being a leader. It's about being able to build the kingdom and expand the territory. And then the women in these novels are often. They have an interesting balance. And it depends, of course, on the novel. I'm. I'm making a broad generalization. But they have a strong, open, feminine heart. They are courageous in that they're vulnerable. They're able to communicate and share their feelings and share their needs with a man. But they typically do so respectfully in those novels. And the man kind of takes them away on an adventure and they go through trials and tribulations, but at the end, that sexual chemistry really is building and becomes very strong. And they usually end up, you know, getting married, having Sex and just having extreme amounts of passion. So that's like a, an archetype, an archetypal story that lives within all of us that is about the masculine feminine energies and why they are drawn so much to each other and how we can use that in our relationships to expand that polarity and create attraction. Because you might be in a situation right now where a man isn't really that attracted to you, or he's not really making you a priority or desiring you, or chasing you, pursuing you, etc, or you just don't, may not even feel attracted to him. You might feel like he's too feminine or it's like a roommate situation, it's depolarized and you're like buddies. And so this will be the biggest solution to you to learn what we're teaching you here, especially in our advanced courses and coaching how to expand that sexual polarity and create that juice, that passion, that chemistry in your relationship through using magnetic feminine communication and magnetic feminine polarity. So very powerful. The second thing is it makes him feel more masculine. So when a man meets a feminine woman and she is asking for help, or she's asking for permission, or she's sharing her heart, she's sharing her vulnerability, she's open and available and receptive with her words, with her body language, with her energy, she is admiring him, she's appreciating him, she is letting him lead, letting him make decisions, letting him provide and make her happy, give to her. And she's not mothering him, she's not trying to give to him, she's not trying to solve his problems, she's not trying to make him happy. That is what will help him to feel more masculine. He'll feel more like a hero, he'll feel more like man. I want to do more for her. I want to protect her, I want to protect her heart, I want to make her happy, I want to provide, I want to solve problems for her, I want to make her feel good, I want to give her pleasure. So that's what happens when you are coming to a relationship or an interaction with a man, even if he's a more feminine man or a more energetically neutral man, you will typically inspire that masculine energy within him. When you are truly in your feminine, the more you enter your healthy femininity through the law of polarity, the more you're going to attract healthy masculinity from the men around you and especially a man that you're maybe connected to right now. So the great thing about that is we don't have to shift both of you. We don't have to even talk to him. All we need to do is one person needs to shift. He can shift into his healthy masculine. That's going to, of course, raise you into your healthy feminine. The more masculine a man is, the more he takes care of you and provides. That's going to help you to relax. But also if you go first, which typically I highly recommend, because that way you can shift your dynamic in relationship without needing to change him. You can shift into your healthy feminine energy through what we teach you, and that'll inspire him into his healthy masculine. And now you can have a great relationship. You can have that chemistry back and he'll want to be that for you, and he'll want to be continuing to be that night knight in shining armor for you. And then the first thing that feminine women do to a man's mind is it also reduces conflict and promotes harmony. So when a man meets a feminine woman, his, his guards actually will start to, to go down. Where typically a lot of men are actually protecting themselves because they've had unfortunate experiences with women in their lives of women who tried to mother them, treat them like a child, tell them what to do, try to control them in some way, try to manipulate them in some way, or try to abuse them or take advantage of them in some way. And so men have put up their own armor and their own shields protecting themselves from women. And they will get, when they meet a woman like this, you know, like a sort of a boss babe archetype of energy or the bitch archetype that we sometimes talk about with the, the, the doormat, the bitch and the queen king, queen matrix. And so they will be oftentimes putting up their own guard. But what happens when a man meets a woman who's truly in her feminine, which doesn't mean being the doormat, because I'm not teaching and we're not teaching you how to be compliant. You can actually be in a healthy submission, which is different than compliance, because submission is really about letting him lead, just like in a dance. But it's for his pleasure and for your pleasure. You have to be enjoying it to fully submit to a man. If you don't enjoy it, then that's not submission, that's compliance. And that's when you're following his leadership. Even though you don't enjoy it, you're letting him tell you what to do, or he's even forcing you to do things that you don't like, you don't enjoy. And that's not good, that's not healthy. And you need to get out of a situation like that. You should not be following a man who is not leading you well, who is not being that hero for you and who is instead taking advantage of you or trying to have you do things that you don't enjoy. Now, that's assuming that you're also in your healthy feminine, that you're not being disrespectful to him, you're not trying to lead him, you're not trying to cause that conflict by mothering him, telling him what to do, criticizing, blaming, shaming, emasculating, etc, because that's going to of course cause conflict and of course cause a man to feel disrespected. Because the biggest desire for the masculine is to feel trusted and respected. And if a man feels that you are treating him like a child or disrespecting him in different ways, he's going to, of course, either he has three options, really. He's either going to start an argument with you, or it'll create a conflict and he'll fight you on it, or he's going to submit to what you say and just go along with it, which likely will not feel good for him at some point because in his masculine core, he's. He's going to feel like less of a man. He's going to feel like that he's sold out on his own masculine instinct and basically become a woman in the relationship. The feminine energy in the relationship, or number three, is he's just going to. Eventually he's going to pull away. He's going to just say, I have to distance myself. I can't be in a relationship like this where I feel disrespected or I don't feel valued or appreciated. So I got. I have to move on. And so that's likely what will happen when you're coming to a relationship from your masculine energy, especially if it's done consistently, it will eventually end up, regardless of those three things, it will eventually end up pushing him away. And if you want to pull a man close, then we can reverse that with feminine energy, magnetic feminine energy, which means still being the queen, where you're true to yourself, you're being who you actually are. Because what we're teaching you here is not to be somebody totally different and not to change into a totally different woman. But we're taking that natural essence that lives within you, within every woman, that core that was there since the moment you were born inside of you. And we're bringing that out, we're tapping back into that feminine energy where you can relax, where you can open up, where you can trust and respect a man and then see how he responds to that. Because if a man doesn't step into his masculine in a healthy way and it doesn't treat you like a queen and want to protect and provide and be your king and your hero, then you're unfortunately going to need to walk away. Now. However, before you walk away, what I recommend is doing a 90 day challenge. So we have in our courses, in our advanced trainings, Magnetize youe Man, 90 Day Challenge. And what this means is you give it a period of time, around 90 days, depending on how long you've known a guy, to use what will teach you and to use what will coach you on and exactly what to say and what to do to be operating from your feminine, which will take some practice because it's like you're learning a new dance. It's like you're learning a new language and. And it takes some time to learn the steps. It takes some time to tap into that core within you and to get rid of some of the old bad programming that may have happened from past traumas or old relationships or bad programming from society or from school or from different models that you may have had from your parents or other friends or relatives. So we have to really clear that out so you can have actually be in your healthy magnetic feminine energy and then attract a man from that space. And so you give it a period of time, generally 90 days, but it could be shorter, 60 days, 30 days. If you find that a man doesn't shift after that time, then it becomes very clear that he's not capable of it. He's broken in some way. He's just not able to show care for your heart or be that man that you need. And you need to be willing to walk away because that's also showing your value as the queen, that you do value yourself and respect yourself. And you need to have that ability to set those boundaries with yourself and get out of an unhealthy situation if that's the case. But likely it won't get there because you're going to simply attract them because most men will be able to step into their healthy masculine when you're using what we teach you consistently, as we've seen with so many of our success stories. And you just need to start that process to engage into it. So much love. Hope this was helpful and I look forward to talking to you again. Very soon. Bye. Bye.