Stop being too nice or you'll push him away. Ask him for help with small things, like reaching something on a shelf or cleaning up a mess. When you let him give, he feels needed and pursues you harder.
Ask for help and allow men to give to you. If you found yourself being the nice girl, or being the doormat, as we sometimes call it, the doormat archetype, and you're not finding that men are devoting themselves to you, or they're wanting to give to you, or they're even attracted to you. One of the powerful antidotes to stop the madness and actually have a man want to be your man and be your hero is to start asking men for help and allowing them to give to you, to be able to be open and receptive, which actually moves you into the feminine energy rather than the masculine energy. Because anytime you find yourself trying to be nice to make a man like you, to make him happy, to please him in some way, you are actually in masculine energy. You are giving and providing for him. You are trying to manage him, to make him feel a certain way, to do something that you want him to do, or to change him and have him be who you want him to be in some way, which is all you in your masculine energy rather than the feminine energy, allowing open, receptive energy and allowing your man to actually give to you and try to make you happy and provide for you and chase and pursue you. So one of the keys that can activate that is to start asking for help. Asking men to help you in small ways and in big ways. Whether you're at the grocery store and you want a man to help you get something off the shelf, or you're at your home and your dog is throwing up and you're asking your man if he could help you clean up the. The mess, that could be something that he could be inspired into. Want to help you as well. Because if a man truly has care for your heart, he's going to want to make you.
