069: Using quantum leaping to manifest your best life

Hi everyone, I hope that you're all well. Welcome to another jam-packed episode of Connie Crystals the Podcast. So my name is Mart Tweedy, I'm your host. The reason that I'm saying my full name is that Every bloody week I get people messaging me like, hi Matthew, hi Mart, hi Marth, hi Mark, hi Mary if you're my mom. So just to clarify, my name is Mart, M-A-R-T, um, short for Martin. I just don't like Martin, I think it's a very old-fashioned name. Sorry if there's any Martins listening. But yes, anyway, I'm your host and this week has literally been at 1,000 miles per hour for me. I do think that the full moon in Leo last weekend had a lot to do with it, but at the same time I also think I'm gonna need to maybe, you know, lay off the moldavite, the Libyan desert glass, the Campo Meteor, everything that I carry around with me daily at the moment. So first things first, where do we start? Hay House got in touch with me earlier this week, you know, the book publisher, about that book deal that Z mentioned a few episodes about? Yeah. So, they're very interested in what I've got to say. In fact, they want me to write the first 3 chapters of my book so that they can have a look through and see if they're willing to publish it, which is obviously, you know, super excited, I'm buzzing. But me mom was like, you know, don't get excited yet, they might not publish it, it might just be a waste of time. And I was like, yeah, but Mom, I get that, but I'd much rather spend some time doing that and submitting it than sitting in that mind frame of, oh well, it might never happen, so I'm not even going to bother at all. Because you're then giving yourself a 0% chance, like zero opportunity. You need to maximize those opportunities, and the only way you can do that is you've got to be in it to win it. And I always say this to me, Mum. She'll always say, "Oh, I wish I could win the lottery one day." And I'm like, "Do you put the lottery on?" "No." Well, you've got zero chance of winning it. You've got to be in it to win it, okay? I'd much rather be in the mindset of, you know, "Maybe this could happen for me," rather than the "It'll never happen to me" mindset. You know, Mama needs to do some positivity work with me, let me tell you. And she might be in good hands actually, because as part of this book deal, they've asked if I had any job-specific qualifications. And although I've got loads of qualifications, they're not really like, they're not really to do with this line of work. I very much doubt things like, you know, hairdressing or business administration support is going to help me with writing a tell-all book about spirituality. So I spoke to Jude earlier this week, my life coach, because I think becoming a life coach personally would really solidify my place doing what I do. Because when you think about it, I'm like a bloody agony aunt anyway. I might as well be qualified to give out that advice, and then I could, you know, even offer one-to-one coaching. Who knows what the future holds? But I think it would be kind of opening those doors and opportunities for me. So anyway, I'm joining Jude Dohans Academy to become a life coach. Oh my God, um, as if I don't already have enough going on. But you know, I'm sure the universe will allow me a few hours a week to study. That's my sign, universe, please putting it out there. Um, so that happened one day anyway, and oh my God, then we had our first adoption meeting with a social worker this week who, you know, she came to check the house over and go through our application and all that jazz. But it's super, super exciting, don't get us wrong, but we probably won't be placed with a child for like at least a year. But who knows, the universe works in mysterious ways, doesn't it? I think something that we didn't consider is that even if we do get placed with a baby, 99% of babies are given a name at birth, so we won't get to choose a name, unfortunately. So it's almost like the only way that we will get a newborn baby without a name is if the mother wanted to give it up, but she, you know, couldn't go through abortion for some reason, like a religious reason or something like that, and she didn't want the attachment to her newborn baby. So that would be the only reason. And I could see Johnny's little face sinking, and he was a bit deflated at that. And when I asked him afterwards, I said, why did you like drop your face at that? And he said, I wanted baby Jake. And I was like, oh my God. I was like, where did Jake come from? But anyway, I've made a little deal with him last night. And while he was cooking his tea, I used Francesca Amber as an inspiration. If you haven't listened to my podcast episode with Fran, go and have a listen. I think it's number 37, because she talks about how she manifested the sex of her twin girls. So I made a deal with Johnny last night, and I said to him, look, if I can manifest a baby boy that comes to us through the universe and his name is Jake, will you then believe 110% in the law of attraction and stop thinking I'm a weirdo? And he said yes. So come on, universe, deliver us a baby boy named Jake. Come on, you can do it. I'm literally shouting stuff like— I was walking around the house yesterday, for example, I was like, Jake, it is ready. Do you know what I mean? Like visualizing a little sign on the door Jake's room, you know, all that jazz. I must sound absolutely psychotic right now to you, love, but it's worth a shot, isn't it? Anything can happen with the law of attraction. So then I also signed up with a marketing agency a few weeks ago now, and they've started rolling out Facebook and Instagram ads. So you might have seen a few more pop-ups from me than usual, um, that's amazing. But oh my God, they've really come with some draining energy, those like posts, because Although it is lovely that I'm now being seen by, you know, all these new customers and my sales have gone up, I'm also reaching people who clearly have no interest in spirituality, shall we say. We'll leave it at that. I could call them a lot worse. So for example, people are using the, you know, the laugh emoji reaction on Facebook. They're using that on my posts. People are sending me messages, you know, telling me to get a real job. Um, people are commenting on me posts telling us that I need psychiatric help for believing it all. All this from trying to help others from achieving what I've achieved. Yeah, I'm just giving you the tools, I'm giving you the tips of what I've used. I honestly don't get why someone would go out of their way to then put that down. I think it's a lot to do with them and their mindset and where they are in their life, because they've obviously got quite a closed mindset. Some people just, you know, they just don't like to see other people's success, and I get that. I think maybe 10 years ago if someone, um, popped up on my Facebook, because I was probably so miserable in my job back then that I would have seen someone else's success and thought, oh, fuck off. Do you know what I mean? Because it hit a nerve inside of us with me own limiting beliefs and internal blocks. But would I have gone out of my way to, you know, send them a message telling them to get a real job? Absolutely not. And it's funny because I was talking to my mom about this yesterday because I said to my mom, oh, I'm getting a few trolls. She didn't know what trolls meant. She thought I meant like, you know, them little baby things with the, the green and the pink hair. And she was like, what's a troll? Um, so anyway, so I was telling her about trolls and she literally stood with a hand over her mouth just because someone had told me to get a real job. And she was like, who does that? And I was like, well, this is it. This is the age that we live in. People like keyboard warriors sit behind computer screens and think that there's no repercussions to their actions. But here in the UK, look at what happened to Caroline Flack, for example. She took her own life because of all the trolling and all the nasty comments that she received online. But the funniest thing is, when you look at these trolls, they're all the same type of person. And I don't want to stereotype anyone, if anyone's listening to this and fits this description, but they're bald, they're mid-50s, they're white, they're a male, they're riding a motorbike on their profile picture, they're from Texas, blah blah blah. I'm not one for negativity, but my God, it is draining having to block and delete comments every few minutes. So then I even started using YouTube Shorts, and for those of you who don't know, YouTube are kind of, you know, they're attempting to make it a bit like TikTok with short mobile videos. So I thought, well, while I'm already making these videos for TikTok, maybe I can just download them and put them on YouTube as well, and then it's like maximizing my exposure. So within minutes of putting my first one on, I'd already had someone comment on my video saying, you know, lol, crystals, what is this, Harry Potter and the adult crystals? Seriously, my friend, worst crack I've ever heard in me life. Get yourself back to comedy school. So yes, a lot of negativity and trolling at the minute, so apologies in advance if you see any of that yourselves. I'm doing my best to block and delete it as quickly as I can, but it is draining. And obviously if something goes on at 3 o'clock in the morning, you might still see it at 7 in the morning because I haven't been online yet. But you know, just try and ignore it best you can. Please don't get involved in any kind of arguments or anything like that. And then, as well as all of this, I recorded on Monday an episode of Spiritual Queens Badass Podcast with the one and only Emma Mumford. And we spoke all about crystal healing, you know, using them to manifest abundance in your life. And that'll be out on April 17th, so I'm sure to tag it in my stories to let you all know as soon as you can have a listen to that. And then on top of all that, I swear I'm getting to today's episode quickly, don't worry. But on top of all that and everything you mentioned just there, I also released a blog last week, so if you head to cannycrystals.co.uk, just press blog from the main menu, it'll take you there. I'm hoping to release a new one every few days because, you know, basically it's things like making the most of the moon energy, or crystals to help with anxiety, or the power of positive talk. Just kind of like topics that I talk about on here, but in short blog form, so you don't have to hear us ramble on about me week, you know, blah, blah, blah. I launched the blog last Thursday night, I think. After about 5 days, I'd already had about 7,000 of you read posts. So thank you so much for reading it if you have already. I hope you enjoy it. For those of you that haven't, like I say, head to my website, click on the menu, click blog, you'll see all the different categories. But anyway, enough of me. I've blabbed on for 10 minutes now. I'm not what you come here to listen to. This week I wanted to talk to you all about manifestation. When do I not? Uh, but more specifically about using quantum leaping to jump into your new reality and ultimately like manifest your best life. Okay, so there's going to be a bit of an experiment. Well, I say experiment, it's not really an experiment, it's more of a, a law of attraction ritual. So it's a manifestation ritual that you can do that will help you go through the mindset of actually receiving it. Okay, so I know that the law of attraction is all to do with quantum physics. Okay, without giving you all a huge science lesson here, I bought this book, I think it's called Quantum Physics for Dummies, something like that. It was a secondhand book and I'm a bit of a nerd. It's very in-depth even for me, but I love it. Anyway, it mentions about something called quantum leaping. So I remember when I was a kid, there was a TV show in the early '90s called Quantum Leap. Some of you oldies might be able to remember it, but it's about this scientist, right? And he does these experiments and he jumps through time into alternate realities and kind of, you know, different time zones in history to alter the past and change the future. I used to be fascinated with it, but it's all based on that. But what I didn't know, and I've only just learned, is that quantum leaping is a real concept using the theory of— and laws, basically— of quantum mechanics and quantum physics. How bloody strange. So even like Marvel, for example, the new Ant-Man film is called Quantumania, and Ant-Man is going to go so small that he induces time travel, jumping into other realities, that kind of thing. You might at this point be thinking, "Mart, shut the hell up." But just hear me out, because I'm not saying that you're going to do this, like, ritual and you're going to wake up as Henry VIII halfway through beheading one of his wives. No, no. What I'm saying is you can use these same principles to quantum leap into another version of your life. A one where you're living out all of your dreams as, you know, a wealthy, healthy, happy human being. You get me? You back in the room? Good. Stick with. Right. So when it comes to manifesting, maybe you've already heard of quantum leaping. Maybe you've been told it takes a certain amount of time to experience a quantum leap, or, you know, that you've got to basically jump through some hoops to get what you want. But the truth is that time is a human concept, and we spoke about this before. Time is a human concept. Really think about that. Time doesn't change anything. Your consciousness does. Okay? So the passage of time has no power to change or heal or resolve, but you do as a human being because you have consciousness. So that means that at any moment you can decide to step into a new version of yourself. You can change your reality. And we know this from, you know, raising our vibrations, choosing not to sit in the depths of despair when something goes wrong. Like I say, if you woke up first thing on a morning and you burnt your forehead on your straighteners, you fell down the stairs, you stubbed your toe, you get into a car car crash, you can change your day. You can either sit there in despair, or you can physically change your day by, you know, listening to a podcast, um, going and cheering yourself up by taking yourself for a massage. There are many things that you can do to raise your vibrations rather than sitting in that angst and that despair. Things can take a long or short period, but it all depends on your ability to change your state of consciousness or change your beliefs, okay? So we can step into new dimensions through consciousness because consciousness is limitless and it's not bound by time or space. So quantum leaping is simply our ability to change our state of consciousness through quantum physics. The laws are real, okay? So we're going to do a little experiment. Like I say, it's not really an experiment, it's more of a ritual. It's a manifestation ritual. We're going to do this shortly just to prove to you that this works because I know you all love these little like manifestation rituals and experiments. I still to this day get people messaging me, you know, saying, "I've seen a green car after listening to episode 7." So firstly, what we need to do is forget all that we've been taught, okay? Because every conditioned belief or assumption that we have keeps us stuck in that limitation. So just remember that you create your reality through your own beliefs, okay? Don't accept everything as true just because it's what you've been taught. Instead, decide what is true for you. Beliefs create reality. Okay, so what beliefs can you rid yourself of and what can you put in their place instead? Think about that. Then you can start to learn to observe without reacting or, you know, attaching meaning to what you see happening around you. And that can take some practice because most of us have been conditioned to react and, you know, feel obligated to react. Simply watch and tell yourself what you see only means what you decide it does. And we know that we master our reality by choosing what we think and believe at any given moment. So no matter what happens, you've just got to believe that everything is working for your highest good. And this is something that I affirm to myself in the shower most mornings. I always say, "Everything is working for my highest good." What's meant to be will simply find me. When you learn to direct your attention positively, expecting only the best in your life, you will find that things unfold in your favor every single time. You'll notice that you've got command over situations, but they have no command over you. Yeah, so when we do that, we can start to let go of, you know, all conditions and attachments regarding how and when that your desire will happen. They only limit you, okay? Allow things to happen naturally and unhindered as you live in that feeling and knowing that what you desire is already yours. When you let go of all the attachments regarding the outcome, that allows everything to flow in the fastest way possible. And then, maybe the most powerful practice of all is remembering that everything is happening in the now, okay? So the past, the future, They're illusions of the mind. Like I said, time doesn't exist. This means that whatever reality that you choose to give life to exists in the here and now already, and it can only be given life in the now through what you're believing, okay? Through your mind state. So this is how you collapse time, okay? By being rooted in the present moment, doing mindfulness without any stories except the one that you have chosen right now. So you're not thinking about the past. You're not thinking about the future, okay? You can only create in the now because you only exist in the now. You don't exist yesterday, for example. You don't exist 10 minutes from now. You exist now in this present moment. And that's why I always say we've got so much anxiety because we think about, you know, things that are going to happen to us, and then 9 times out of 10 they don't. So we're given anxious thoughts about something in the future. We're not living in the future. We're not living 10 minutes from now. We're living right now in this present moment. We deal with so much depression because we think about, "Hmm, I could have done this in the past." We don't live in the past. We don't exist yesterday. We live right now. So let's do this little ritual together. You might have heard of it before. It's called the Two Cup Method, okay? But believe me, it is so powerful. Like I say, it's a huge mindset shift, and I think that whenever I do Law of Attraction rituals and experiments, They're just a fun way to make use of some of the processes, you know, that can help us manifest more effectively. And when you do this, kind of, I love using different experiments in my own Law of Attraction practice because I find that they help keep me motivated and focused on manifesting my desires. So this 2 Cup Method, it's actually, you know, a ritual that's heavily based on science, and if you learn about it with an open mind, you can definitely come to appreciate its powers in helping you manifest. So the quantum jumping theory says that, you know, we can quantum jump or we can quantum leap from one reality to another. Some scientists have even suggested that there are multiple different universes. You know, sometimes you might have heard of this called parallel universes. The likes of Albert Einstein, Stephen Hawking, they've all talked about this, okay? So a different version of you is in each of these universes, meaning that you have endless realities playing out right now playing out in alternate universes. So you might be really rich in one, you might be really poor in another, you might have just won the lottery, you might be Beyoncé. Do you know what I'm saying? It's kind of mind-blowing to think about it, but here's the really cool thing. If there are endless realities playing out right now, then that means that there are endless possibilities for you to experience. There's another reality that exists right now in which you have every single desire that you want to manifest in this reality. Isn't that crazy? The Quantum Leap in theory states that when we achieve our manifestation, what we're actually doing is we're jumping from our current reality, where we don't have our manifestation, to the reality where we do have our manifestation. So this is exactly where the 2 Cup Method can help. It's a manifestation ritual, like I say, that's designed to help us quantum leap to our desired reality consciously. And it involves the use of two cups, obviously. One represents the current reality where you don't have your desires, and one represents your desired reality where you want to go. Okay? So the current reality cup, you fill that with water, but the water from this cup is poured into the desired reality cup before you drink it. And that might sound silly to you if you're first learning about it, but it actually makes a lot of sense when we get into why this works. So you're going to need either two cups or glasses, some drinking water, and some Post-it notes and a pen. Okay, so first we're going to create an intention of what we want to manifest, and we're going to make it as specific as possible. So try and dig really, really deep with this. Think about what you would want to achieve if you knew that anything was possible. And like I've said about achieving your goals, I find it also helps to set your desire that has a strong sense of why you want to achieve it behind it. Okay, so that means, you know, it is in alignment with your higher self no matter what reality you are in. And then you're going to write down on your Post-it notes or sticky labels, whatever you've got, pieces of paper, you're going to write your current situation down on one note and you're going to write your desired outcome on the other. So take some time with this, okay? Don't rush. You're going to examine your current reality and where you are right now in comparison to where you want to be. So one note might say, you know, 'Current reality: working to survive in life,' because every day you're just going to work, you're coming home, you do that because that's your income, that helps you live, yeah? But the other note might say, 'Your desired reality is financially free, wealthy, and abundant, happy, satisfied,' yeah? Do you get what I'm saying? So you want one note that says 'current reality,' what your current reality is, and another saying 'desired reality' and what your desired outcome of this ritual is. So then, what you're going to do is you're going to stick those current reality Post-it notes or labels onto one cup, and your desired reality Post-it note onto the other cup. One cup now represents your current reality, where we are right now. The other cup represents where we want to go and where we're going to be. So to finish that part off, we're going to take some water and we're going to fill up the current reality cup, so where we are right now. Okay, so that cup is now full of water. Now, this is a really important part of the 2 Cup Method that many people overlook because, you know, you definitely shouldn't. Begin visualizing your desired reality. How will you feel when it manifests? Okay, picture yourself living out that dream. If you're manifesting a wealthy lifestyle, don't just picture yourself with like money in your bank. Picture yourself giving a generous tip in a restaurant. Or giving money to charity, or helping out a friend or a family member who is in need. Something that's going to make you feel good and go through those, you know, those internal feelings of satisfaction and happiness, and I can't believe I've just done that, because it makes you feel internally good. Okay, so focus on your desired reality cup as you do that visualization exercise and really, really tune into the feelings and emotions that you would experience in that alternate reality so you can begin to embody that energy. While you continue visualizing your desired reality, you're going to pour the water from the current reality cup into the desired reality cup. Okay, that's important, and it's important that you remain focused and you try to imagine the energy transferring between the two cups. So as you pour water into the desired reality cup, You're gonna visualize your current reality fading away and the water being supercharged with that energy of your new reality and your visualizations. So when you finish doing that and when you finish pouring that water very, very slowly, you're gonna drink all of the water from that desired reality cup. And I want you to do this slowly, and I want you to do it with full intention, okay? I want you to taste the water in your mouth. I want you to close your eyes if you have to. I want you to give thanks for, you know, jumping into that reality. Really get into that state of mind that the water that you're drinking is a magical potion that's going to give you your desires and transport you into that alternate timeline where you have everything you want. Keep tuning in your emotions as you drink the rest of the water, just knowing that you're shifting your reality right now. And that is basically the ritual. It sounds a bit crazy, I do get it, but the amount of people that have done this experiment online, on TikTok, on YouTube, you know, on Instagram, the amount of people that have done that and they've manifested something so quickly is insane. So I did this the other night just as a little tester, and I had that my desired reality, I just wanted something that, you know, was materialistic, and I just thought, hmm, let's see. I wanted to measure this. And my desired reality was to get VIP tickets to go and see Beyoncé. I knew that her tickets were going on sale this week, and I knew it was going to be mad rush, you know, trying to get the specific ones I wanted. So I did this method. I visualised myself stood there, dancing around as she went past us, so close, she touched me hand, I was literally there, I felt those feelings, I could feel her skin, I could feel the sun on my skin, I could hear the crowd, I could hear the music. And the next day, all of me friends are at something like, you know, 300,000th in the queue for tickets on Ticketmaster, and there I am, straight in the queue to buy them, with only a few hundred people before us. And I got those tickets with ease. And I got tickets for me and all me friends. And to this day, there are still friends of mine struggling to get those same tickets, and I think the prices have gone up by nearly £400 for the tickets that we bought. Could that be coincidence? Maybe. Like, manifestation could all be coincidence. But could this also be down to the fact that I did the 2 Cup Method? Also maybe. Okay? It's all possible. So let's take a quick look at the science behind the 2 Cup Method for Quantum Leaping and manifesting. So, some people might actually argue that, you know, the success of the 2 Cup Method is simply down to the visualization process because we know that visualizing is a manifesting technique in itself. And if I'm honest, there's definitely some level of truth to that. Visualization can always help us to get in alignment with our desire, and that could be the process that's allowing us to quantum leap here. But there was a Japanese physicist who studied this experiment, and in his research— I think he was called Dr. Emoto, don't quote me on that, I think he was called Dr. Emoto— but in his research, Dr. Emoto exposed water samples to, you know, different music, different thought vibrations, different phrases. For example, some samples were exposed exposed to emotions such as anger and hate and aggression, while others were exposed to feelings like love and positivity and caring, and the samples were then frozen. Okay. The samples that were exposed to negative emotions were found to have a deformed and irregular molecular-like structure and form, whereas the samples exposed to love and positivity had a near-perfect structure that kind of resembled snowflakes. Is that coincidence as well? Possibly. But could it be because of the Law of Attraction and, you know, giving out that positive energy and that changed the structure? Also possible. So these amazing findings suggest that human consciousness really has the ability to, you know, actually physically change the molecular structure of water, which is amazing because our bodies are 70% water at the end of the day. So if you think about it, in the 2-Cup Method, We are just using our conscious processes and visualization to change the vibration of the water in the cup. We're essentially charging it. Yeah, we're charging it to align with the reality that we want to jump to. So by consuming that water, we're taking in this vibration which aligns us with our desired reality, and that allows us to quantum leap to it. Does that kind of make sense? It makes sense because What we eat and drink has a huge effect on our vibration. We know this and what we're able to manifest, but that also takes it to the next level by actually charging what we're consuming. Okay, you're supercharging with energy the water that is basically being drunk by you. So next time you eat or drink anything, try and eat or drink it mindfully and give thanks to it. You know, like when they say grace in America before they eat anything at a meal and they all put their heads down and say grace. Try something similar, yeah? But please, if you're going to do anything this week, try the 2 cup method out for yourself. Let me know how you get on as well, because I really want to know if this works for you lot as well. I'm going to do it again this, this week, probably this weekend, but I'm going to do it this weekend with a bigger goal, okay? And I'm going to see what happens, and I will keep you all up to hitted because, you know, it's going to be amazing. But let me know. You can message me on Instagram. Go and drop me a follow if you're not already. And why you're not following me already if you're on episode 69. I'm @canny_crystals on Instagram, or you can find us on TikTok, Facebook, YouTube. All of my usernames are @canny_crystals. And I really, really hope that you all enjoyed this episode. And if you did, please feel free to leave a review wherever you're listening to this on. I really would appreciate it. And you know, it really, really helps this podcast grow to new audiences and helps it be heard by, you know, new people. And it really pushes it up the charts as well and helps me be seen. So Thank you so much for listening. But in the meantime, I hope that you all have an amazing week ahead. I hope that you've all enjoyed this episode, and I'll see you all next Friday for another episode of Candy Crystals, the podcast. Have fun quantum leaping. Lots of love, guys. Bye!