A message to Melissa about grief and entitlement after losing the healthy child she expected. The speaker says you're not owed anything in life, but you're worthy anyway. The shift: stop seeing it as something taken away and start seeing it as a gift.
And this is a hard message, but I do believe this is the message that I am meant to deliver. It wasn't mine, came right through me. Melissa, you've been walking around like you are entitled to a healthy child. You're worthy of one. You can grieve not having one. You can take care of your heart, and you are worthy of all of that. But you need to remember you're not entitled to anything in this world. And it was like, bam. I went from something had been taken to me to something had been gifted to me.
