Mike DomitrzPresident, Author, and Speaker on Respect, The Center for Respect, Inc. · Author & Speaker on Respect for Schools, Corporations, & the Military since 1990 (has reached

Ask Your Partner

17 Oct 2025 · 1 min

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Ask before you kiss. When someone says

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Imagine that you're alone with somebody you want to kiss. Nothing's happened. They look you in the eyes and say, can I kiss you? Are you going to do this? You asked? Awkward. Wound it. No way. Or are you doing a little woohoo dance inside your head? This is about to happen. If you agree this is a woohoo moment, yell woohoo! Woohoo! So how many agree when you find out the person you're hot for is hot for you, this is hot? If you agree that's hot, say hot. Hot! Only asking gives you that gift.

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