You can set firm boundaries without being rude. Rudeness is disrespect, like eye-rolling or mocking, but clear, direct boundaries respect both you and the other person. Schools can book the speaker to teach students these skills.
Is being a little rude necessary to be respected? I saw a post claiming you have to be a little rude so people know you won't put up with nonsense. It's just flat out wrong. Look, declaring your boundaries has nothing to do with being rude. Rude is an attitude, and it usually runs on disrespect for others. Rolling of the eyes, mocking another person. None of this is needed. When it comes to your boundaries, be clear, be direct, and do so with respect for yourself and others. It's as simple. If you want students to gain these essential skills around respect and their boundaries, follow me here, or even better, reach out. Let's talk about bringing me to speak at your schools.
