Asking for consent during sex doesn't kill the mood. If a moment is truly meaningful, a simple question like "Can I kiss you?" won't diminish it. Clear communication actually enhances intimacy.
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Should sexual intimacy be fun? If you agree, type fun in the chat right now. Yeah, it should be fun. If it's not fun, someone's doing something wrong, okay? It should be fun. Now, is it always going to be romantic? No, that's called Hollywood, right? It's not always going to be romantic. Can it always be respectful? Absolutely. So, if it can always be respectful, why don't we just ask, can I kiss you, instead of going for it? Go ahead, type in the chat reasons you believe, not you personally, but why you think some people Go for it instead of asking. All right, they don't know how to put it into words. Could lose the moment, make it awkward. All right, so let's go to these. Here's a little secret: if you ask and it ruins the moment, you never had a moment to start with. If you were in a serious sexual relationship and your partner, who you desire and want, tells you they want to do something with you and asks if you want to do it too, are you going to be like, ruined it? No, you're going to be like, yes! Asking does not make it awkward.