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In this brief monologue, the speaker (Mike) illustrates a common social situation: two students sitting together on a couch at the end of the night, both hoping something will happen. He points out that people typically wait about two hours before making a move, yet during that time they gain no new information and the atmosphere shifts from potentially romantic to increasingly frustrating. The speaker frames this prolonged hesitation as the core of “awkwardness,” arguing that waiting only worsens the situation and that taking initiative—asking first—should replace the default waiting period.

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