BECAUSE I SAID SO
10 Apr 2025 · 0 min

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When someone asks why you said no to an intimate request, they're usually trying to pressure you into yes. You don't owe them a reason. "Because I said so" is enough.

When someone asks why you said no to an intimate request, they're usually trying to pressure you into yes. You don't owe them a reason. "Because I said so" is enough.
When you say no to somebody, should they ever ask why? When you— after you said the word no to an intimate request, should they be asking you why? No, you don't owe them. The why implies you didn't give an answer that was acceptable. So I need to know why so I can change your answer. How many agree the only reason they're asking why is to change that answer to a yes? You agree that's probably what's happening there? If they fire back why, here's your answer: because I said so. That's your text back.