Mike Domitrz argues that asking someone for a nude isn't a compliment about attractiveness. People only ask people they think won't report them. It's an insult because it assumes you can be manipulated.
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They only asked you because they believed you will. That's the truth. That's it. Somebody go, wait a second, Mike, that's not true. They're picking me because I'm gorgeous. They're picking me because I'm good looking. They're picking me because I'm strong. Nope. Here's how we can prove it. If the peer over there who's beautiful would report them, would they ever ask that peer for a nude? And every student says no way. No way. Way would they ask that person for a nude if they're gonna report them? So they only ask the ones they think will. Now, interesting here, is that a compliment or an insult? Type in the chat what you think. Is that a compliment or an insult then? Yeah, Rob's right, it's an insult. It implies they believe they can manipulate you. It should be an insult.