Call out bad behavior and raise the standard!
30 Apr 2023 · 1 min
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Stop avoiding asks because you fear rejection. That's denying the other person a choice. Call out friends who do this, hold them accountable, and raise the standard together.
Stop avoiding asks because you fear rejection. That's denying the other person a choice. Call out friends who do this, hold them accountable, and raise the standard together.
Fear of rejection. Yeah. So listen up. Whatever you do, do not give them a choice. Wait a second. Hold on a second. Can we all agree what I just said is horrific? If you agree what I just said is horrible, just yell horrible. Think about that. Anytime someone says, I'm not going to ask because they might say no, they're literally saying they don't deserve a choice. I'm not going to give them one. Think about how messed up that is. I'm not going to ask because they might say no. Isn't that the point? By the way, if your friend ever says, I'm not going to ask, they might say no, that's when everybody in this room should look to that friend and go, isn't that the point? And then do this with the friend. I'm surprised knowing what a good person you are. Raise the standard.
