Two partners agree beforehand that they'll have sex while drunk. That agreement doesn't count as consent because consent has to happen in the moment, not planned hours or minutes ahead. It needs to be active and ongoing during the act itself.
So let's say that at 8 o'clock, one picks the other one up from the other one's house. And they say, hey, we're going to— and they're in a relationship. And they say, hey, tonight, are you going to get drunk? Yep, I'm going to get drunk. You too? Yeah, I am too. All right, so how about later on we choose to hook up? We're drunk, but we're both saying we're good with that. That's what you're asking, right? They give total approval before they're drunk that when we're drunk, can we do this? Is that consent later in the night when they are drunk? No. Why not? Yep. Yeah, that's a great explanation. Consent has to be, and here's the word you're gonna see me use later on, consent has to be in the moment. So the in the moment's critical. So you can't plan it 5 hours ahead, 6, you can't plan it 10 minutes ahead.
