Jeff says most people "go for it" when they get the look before kissing. But when asked to interpret the same scenario, everyone reads it differently. The facilitator uses this to show why assuming consent from body language alone doesn't work.
Now, Jeff, once somebody gets the look, not you personally, once somebody gets the look, do most people stop and say, can I kiss you? Or do they just go for it? What do you mean most people do? Not you personally.
Uh, go for it.
All right, let's look at the room face. Do most people ask first or go for it?
Go for it.
So you clearly know what you're talking about. All right, so here's looking at it here, Jeff. See that exit sign over there? You're going to imagine your partner is standing below that exit sign, and on the count of 3— not until the count of 3, but when we all get to the count of 3— you're going to share with everybody here this afternoon your version of that book. Here we go, Jeff!