Dating coach Mike Domitrz argues that claiming you have "game" reveals insecurity and fear of rejection, not confidence. Real respect means dropping the manipulative tactics and being honest instead.
Here's the reality. How many agree you could be making out with someone and it can turn awkward like that? If you agree that's true, say that's true. Yeah. Ever heard of braces? Watch out. Yes. You're not afraid of being awkward. You're really good at it. Every now and then I meet a student. They do this. They go, Mike, you don't know me. I've got game. Yeah. And whenever someone says that to me, I look them right in the eyes and I go, I'm sorry you need it. See, if you're telling me you've got game, what you're telling me is who you are isn't good enough, so you have to play a game to get what you want. I wouldn't be bragging. By the way, if you're so smooth, wouldn't you always ask? I mean, wouldn't you always get a yes? Are you actually afraid you're going to get a no?
