A speaker challenges the excuse that asking for consent risks rejection. If someone is into you, asking won't change that. Acting without consent to avoid hearing no is a horrific excuse that deserves to be called out.
All right, so if it can be, why don't we just ask, can I kiss you, instead of going for it? You told everyone, hey Mike, most people go for it. So why don't people just ask? Raise your hand, give me reasons you think people go for it instead of asking. I saw a hand right there. All right, so the fear of rejection. Now that one's an interesting one, right? Because think about that. I'm not going to ask you because you might say no, so I'm just going to do it to you. By the way, does that sound awful? If you agree that sounds awful, just say awful. Anytime somebody says to you, well, I'm not going to ask because they might say no, just slap the Uh, isn't that the point? That's a horrific excuse.
