INFATUATION VS LOVE
12 Apr 2025 · 1 min

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True love isn't needing someone to survive. It's two independent people with their own dreams and goals choosing to build a life together. Dependency masquerades as love but it's actually infatuation.

True love isn't needing someone to survive. It's two independent people with their own dreams and goals choosing to build a life together. Dependency masquerades as love but it's actually infatuation.
Can anybody give me a definition of love? If I think I can't live without them, this isn't love. This is called dependency. It's extremely unhealthy. How many agree you should be an independent individual? Even when you're in love, you should be your own person who can live your own life. You're not basing your whole life on this other person. You do not become one in love. You become one relationship that is shared by 2 independent individuals. You could have different dreams and goals. You don't lose that because they somehow are not in your life anymore. So we are really crossing the line in what we call infatuation, which I can't be without them, I can't be without them. Versus love.