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In this brief segment of a presentation, the speaker addresses the audience (including a person named Mike) about the importance of sexual maturity being reflected in the words we use with partners. He critiques vague or awkward phrasing like “Can I touch your love?” and proposes a clear, confident question: “What would you love for me to do in bed for you tonight?” The speaker then uses a quick audience poll—asking listeners to yell “fun” if they think the suggested wording could be enjoyable—to illustrate how many are comfortable with direct communication. He acknowledges that some may view the direct approach as “old” or uncomfortable, but emphasizes that the problem lies not in the question itself but in the speaker’s willingness to ask it. The overall message encourages adults to adopt straightforward, eye‑to‑eye language to demonstrate sexual maturity.

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