Mike DomitrzPresident, Author, and Speaker on Respect, The Center for Respect, Inc. · Author & Speaker on Respect for Schools, Corporations, & the Military since 1990 (has reached

Mutually Amazing is a healthy goal.

15 Aug 2024 · 1 min

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In this brief spoken segment, the presenter proposes that sexual encounters on college campuses should only occur when they are moving toward "mutual amazement," meaning both participants experience shared enjoyment and consent. The speaker argues that adopting this standard would likely reduce the overall frequency of sexual activity, describing the current lack of such mutuality as a negative sign. Emphasizing inclusivity, the presenter asserts that gender, identity, or sexual orientation should not affect the right to a mutually amazing experience, and advises individuals to stop any encounter that does not feel mutually amazing.

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So imagine if on a Friday night or a Thursday night or a Saturday night on a college campus, if people were going to be sexually active, they would only do it if it was heading towards mutual amazement. Does this slow down the level of sexual activity on campus, or do you think there'd be more? If the only way people were sexually active is if they were pursuing mutual amazement, do you think there'd be less or more sex taking place on college campuses? Which one? Less. Yes. A little bit dramatic. Dramatic. What does this say about our sex lives? You agree this is a bad sign? Just say yes, it is. Yes. Because that's what you deserve. I don't care what gender you are, identity, sexual orientation, and I don't mean I don't care, I mean when it comes to this, that shouldn't matter. Everybody deserves for it to be a mutually amazing experience. So the second you start to think this isn't going to be mutually amazing, stop it. And say, this, this isn't heading the way I want it to go.