Mike DomitrzPresident, Author, and Speaker on Respect, The Center for Respect, Inc. · Author & Speaker on Respect for Schools, Corporations, & the Military since 1990 (has reached

No gender 'always wants it'.

7 May 2024 · 1 min

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In this brief segment, the speaker challenges the common stereotype that men are constantly sexually motivated. He argues that sexual desire is not a universal, constant drive but is heavily influenced by the perceived attractiveness of a potential partner. He illustrates this by noting that when a man is presented with someone he finds unattractive or repulsive, his interest quickly wanes. The speaker also invites the audience to confirm that this pattern—where attraction depends on perceived desirability—applies across all genders, receiving affirmative responses. The overall message emphasizes a realistic, nuanced view of sexual attraction rather than simplistic gendered myths.

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the way, do men always want it all the time? No. No, that's actually a myth. Every now and then I'll get a— what, what's— what's that? That's okay. Every now and then I get a guy who goes, I do. All right, so, and maybe that's what happened. I'm not assuming, but I'll go there. That's because he's dreaming of his dream situation. As soon as you tell him it's somebody he finds not attractive, in fact repulsive, he's running from the room. By the way, how many agree that's probably true of just about every gender? when it comes to sexual attraction. Is that true, yes or no? Yes. Yes. All right, so we have to be realistic in today's discussion.