Mike DomitrzPresident, Author, and Speaker on Respect, The Center for Respect, Inc. · Author & Speaker on Respect for Schools, Corporations, & the Military since 1990 (has reached

One reason porn can be messed up.

14 Mar 2024 · 1 min

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In this segment, the speaker argues that porn performers do not engage in the acts they depict on screen, emphasizing that off‑camera they seek pleasure, connection, emotion, and love—elements absent from most porn. He stresses that porn is a visual and audio fantasy, not a realistic representation of healthy sex, and that its exaggerated, comical presentation should make viewers laugh rather than become aroused. The speaker also warns that porn often normalizes bizarre and incest‑related scenarios (e.g., step‑family sexual encounters), which can mislead children into believing such dynamics are normal, thereby posing a risk to their sexual development.

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The people who are in porn will tell you they don't do at home what they do on the screen. There's been lots of research on this. You can look it up. You can Google that concept. Because they— at home they want pleasure. They want connection. They want emotion. They want love. And all of that's for other people's visual and audio fantasy. So it's not realistic. So telling them that, just know the lens you're seeing it through. If anything, if you understood healthy sex, you'd be laughing more at porn than turned on by it. Awesome. All right, because it's comical in the way it's being presented, and it's twisted in its relationships. Stepmom and stepson, and/or stepsister and stepbrother, right? It's showing all these weird things, right, as normal, so then kids start thinking, well, yeah, we're close, but I mean, porn— I mean, you get weird stuff taking place.