Planning isn't consent.
31 Jan 2024 · 1 min

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A plan to have sex isn't consent. Real consent happens in the moment and can be taken back anytime. You can change your mind, and that's not breaking a promise.

A plan to have sex isn't consent. Real consent happens in the moment and can be taken back anytime. You can change your mind, and that's not breaking a promise.
If your partner says, tonight, honey, we're going to have sex, and you're like, yes, right? You might think this is awesome. And then 11 o'clock rolls around and you ain't having sex. By the way, does that happen in real life? Yes or no? Oh, yeah. Yeah, because they made a plan. They didn't give you consent. Notice the difference? One was a plan. Consent's in the moment. Don't blame them for a plan, right? People do it all the time. But you said, yeah, and I changed my mind. That's the thing we have in this country. We have freedom. Thank you.