Porn shows sex wrong. People with healthy sex lives know it's ridiculous, but people without that foundation treat it as a manual. The real baseline isn't passion or romance. It's respect.
People who actually have a healthy sex life, if they see porn, they're almost laughing, right? Because they're going, this person is not into this, right? This is obvious. This is not how it works. All right. But people who don't have healthy think that's the norm. That's the danger zone. All right. So we have to be able to understand that. So we don't want those reference points. Now, the key then is, if it's not always going to be romantic and passionate, can it at least be respectful? Yeah.
