PRE**TORY BEHAVIOUR
18 Jul 2025 · 0 min
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Consent means stopping the instant your partner says stop. The excuse "I can't control myself" is predatory behavior, full stop. Respect their boundaries even when you're emotionally heightened.
Consent means stopping the instant your partner says stop. The excuse "I can't control myself" is predatory behavior, full stop. Respect their boundaries even when you're emotionally heightened.
It's free to be removed, which means the second you say stop, they must stop. Do some partners say, but I can't control myself? Do people use that line? Yes or no? That's called predatory behavior. And I'm not joking. If somebody says, I can't control myself alone with a person sexually— so that is never a legit excuse for someone to use. If you're in here and you've used it, just catch yourself and go, no, I won't do that anymore because they deserve for me to stop. Even if I'm all wound up, they deserve for me to stop.
