Sexual activity must stop immediately when a partner says stop. The excuse "I can't control myself" is predatory behavior, never a legitimate justification. If you've used it, hold yourself accountable and respect boundaries regardless of your emotions.
It's free to be removed, which means the second you say stop, they must stop. Do some partners say, but I can't control myself? Do people use that line? Yes or no? That's called predatory behavior. And I'm not joking. If somebody says, I can't control myself alone with a person sexually— so that is never a legit excuse for someone to use. If you're in here and you've used it, just catch yourself and go, no, I won't do that anymore because they deserve for me to stop. Even if I'm all wound up, they deserve for me to stop.
