Mike Domitrz argues that virginity status doesn't determine a person's worth. Whether someone is a virgin or sexually active, neither choice makes them better or worse than anyone else. He calls for respect across different personal choices and values.
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in high school, there's these 2 worlds. There's this, look, I'm a virgin, I'm special. And then there's this world of over here of you're a virgin and you're a loser, right? That both of them are judging. So let me be clear. You are no more special because you're a virgin. You are no more special if you've been sexually active. You're not more special than other people because you made choices different than them. That doesn't make you better than different people. How many agree that's a good point? That just because you make different choices doesn't make you worth more or better than. If you agree that's true, say that's true. That's true. So don't be walking around going, oh, that person this, and looking down on. Just going, oh, they make different choices. They have different values, beliefs. I do. That's what's great about here. You can have different values and beliefs, right? So that's beautiful.