A speaker asks the crowd to react to "mutually amazing consensual sexual relationship" and finds that "amazing" gets the biggest response, suggesting most people think great sex is unrealistic. He argues we've set the bar too low and need to normalize expecting enthusiastic, high-quality experiences.
Mutually amazing consensual sexual relationship. Now, a bunch of your eyes just bugged out. What word up there— yell it out— made more of our eyes bug out? Yell it out. Mutually. All right, I heard mutually. And what was the other word? Amazing. Amazing is where most people bug out. Now, why do most people bug out on amazing? Most people bug out on amazing because we have such low standards that when we see amazing sex, we're like, oh, no way. And then some of you went, mutually amazing? And I'm like, let's not go too far. That seems a bit far. Here's what would have happened in a healthy sexual world. When that went on the screen, everybody in the room would have done this. Of course. Why else would I choose to be sexually active with another human being?
