Mike DomitrzPresident, Author, and Speaker on Respect, The Center for Respect, Inc. · Author & Speaker on Respect for Schools, Corporations, & the Military since 1990 (has reached

The Power of Letting Yourself Fail

14 May 2025 · 1 min

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In this spoken monologue, the speaker examines the root of perfectionism as a fear of being wrong and consequently failing. They argue that the drive to always be right stems from an inability to accept human fallibility. By acknowledging that we are "perfectly imperfect," the speaker encourages embracing mistakes as essential learning opportunities, even if we sometimes repeat them. They warn against self‑cruelty and the unrealistic expectation that we should behave like robots. The core call to action is that we should model and encourage risk‑taking for young people, framing failure as a valuable part of personal growth.

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The reason people are trying to prove themselves right is a fear that if they're not right, somehow being wrong is to fail. And therefore I can't be wrong 'cause then I fail and I cannot fail. I must be perfect. And 'cause if I'm not perfect, then there's a lack versus, oh, I'm perfectly imperfect. Like, like every day I look in the mirror, it is what it is. I am the farthest thing from perfect, but that's the perfect part of human existence actually, is that I'm fallible. I am gonna make mistakes and I'm gonna learn from those mistakes. Sometimes I'm not gonna learn. I'm gonna make 'em again. It's part of the journey. To beat myself up is to be cruel, to expect myself not to be human. We're not robots. And so one of the greatest things we can do for young people is, how did I take risks today that allowed me to fail?