A consent educator argues that sexual intimacy should be mutually amazing, not just good. The speaker challenges students to identify which word in the talk surprised them most, pushing back against low expectations and emphasizing that both partners deserve experiences worth the risk.
Mutually amazing consensual sexual intimacy. But the mutuality there is essential. Now, what word up there do you think makes most people's eyes bug out? Which word, when it went up there, some of your eyes bugged out. I saw it in the room. Yell out the word you think made people's eyes bug out. Amazing, 'cause our standards are so low. Good is not a standard of excellence. If it's really gonna be something special between 2 people, shouldn't we be shooting for amazing? How many agree that makes sense? That if I'm gonna take all these risks and this is something truly special with another human being that I'm gonna share, they're gonna share with me, We shouldn't be shooting just for good. We should be going for amazing.
