Constantly checking in on your partner signals deeper trust issues that likely stem from your own unresolved baggage, not their behavior. The speaker recommends campus counseling to work through the roots of your mistrust and build a healthier foundation.
If you have to check in, that's not trust. Then that's not love. If you have to lack trust, that should be a red flag. Something's wrong. I want to be clear. It might not be them. It might be you who needs to talk with a counselor on why you don't trust. Because you might be bringing some baggage to this relationship that isn't their fault. Maybe that's possible. Say yes, it is. Yes, it is. And there could be reasons you don't trust because of that. But this is why you use counselors here on campus. That's what you're here for. To have these conversations to help reach through this.
