Tust Yourself
22 Dec 2025 · 0 min
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Self-trust comes first. If you trust yourself, you keep control and resist manipulation. A partner who never trusts you probably doesn't trust themselves, which signals deeper problems.
Self-trust comes first. If you trust yourself, you keep control and resist manipulation. A partner who never trusts you probably doesn't trust themselves, which signals deeper problems.
The trust— who do you need to trust more, the other person or yourself? Always yourself. Always yourself. Look, if I trust me, you can't get me to do anything. You can't. But if I don't trust me and I trust you, I'll do whatever you want because I think you're more important. That's incredibly dangerous. I need to trust me first. And then if I trust me, it's also easier to trust you. Here's a red flag: if you have a partner who never trusts you, it's usually because they don't trust themselves. That's usually what's happening in those situations.
