Humans are built to be awkward in social situations, from first dates to marriage. We're essentially two different minds that shift feelings in an instant, making smoothness impossible.
Are we nearly as smooth as we like to believe we are in our own minds? Yes or no? No, we are not. Have any of you ever watched a friend try to hook up with somebody? Just even try to date somebody, get them to hook up, meet up somewhere? Have you ever watched this happen? Yes or no? Yes. Or a friend asking somebody to dance, even that, right? It's one of the funniest things you will ever observe. The fact is we are humans, we are built to be awkward. We are going to be awkward in these situations. People go, what about when you've been married 20 years? You'll still be awkward sometimes. Here's why. You're 2 different minds. And can those minds change in a split second? And those feelings change in a split second? Yes or no? Yes.
