When alcohol is intentionally used to take advantage of someone.
In this spoken presentation, the speaker paints a vivid scenario at a social gathering where three husbands stand together while one of their spouses becomes visibly intoxicated and begins to act handsy and flirtatiously toward another partner. The speaker then critiques the typical bystander response of jokingly saying “get some,” pointing out how such comments normalize the exploitation and ignore the responsibility of the married partner to intervene. He highlights the absurd rationalizations people make—such as fearing they’ll never be able to “get laid” if they intervene—while emphasizing that these attitudes are morally wrong. Throughout, the speaker repeatedly labels the behavior and the surrounding attitudes as “messed up,” urging listeners to recognize the problem and reject the casual acceptance of alcohol‑facilitated sexual exploitation.
