Experience counts less than you think. Someone who's had many relationships isn't automatically good at giving relationship advice. What matters is where their knowledge actually comes from, not how many times they've lived through something.
How many agree the peer who gives the knowledge is the one who does this? Look, I've had lots of sex, let me tell you, right? And everybody with knowledge would step back and go, does that mean quality? Because it doesn't mean quality at all. They could have— you could— what's funny is you could watch them like go through a roller coaster of relationships and tell you they're the pro because they've been through so many, right? Versus, hmm, if that's not the cycle I'm looking for, this might not be the best advisor for the situation, right? So that's one of the things we have to watch out for, where they're getting their knowledge from.
