A speaker argues that requests for nudes aren't about attraction but about power. The asker targets someone they think won't report them, not the person they're actually interested in. It's coercion, not a compliment.
Do nudes, the sending of nudes in high school, does it happen a little bit or a lot? Why do they ask you for— I want you to look at the screen. Why do they ask the person they ask for the nude? They say, will you send me? Why'd they choose you? Because they think you will, not because you're gorgeous. Fact. And I'll prove it to you. Will they ever ask the hot person who will report them to the authorities? Is this an insult or a compliment? It's an insult. And we should take it that way. Here's the wild part. Are they normally dating when they're asking for these photos? You know the answer to this. They're not. Somebody's asking you to commit a sexual crime for their pleasure. And this has nothing to do with seeing someone naked, 'cause they could have done that on Google in 5 seconds. This is about power over you. That's what it is.
