Awkwardness isn't something to fear in intimate moments, it's inevitable. Because partners are different people with changing thoughts and feelings, uncomfortable moments will happen. Accepting this as normal lets you show up more authentically.
You're not afraid of being awkward. If you were afraid of being awkward, you'll never be alone with another human being in a sexual or intimate situation in your life because it's part of the equation. What about when you've been married? Then it's never awkward? Yes, it will still be awkward sometimes. You're 2 different people, and so you're gonna have different thoughts and feelings that change in a moment. So we're not actually afraid of being awkward.
