A speaker argues you never owe anyone sexual intimacy, no matter the relationship or circumstances. The approach is simple: make eye contact, smile, ask explicitly, and respect the answer. Society's real problem is that we don't actually honor no.
So here's the question of the day. Do you ever owe a human being sexual intimacy? Yes or no? No. Never. No matter how long you've been together. No matter how much money they've spent on you. No matter how far you've gone with this person earlier in the night or previously. No matter how— if they're a senior and you're new to campus. Even in that case, right? You'll have all different examples people will bring up. You never owe sexual intimacy. important. So, 1, you're gonna look them in the eyes. 2, you're gonna smile. 3, you're gonna ask the question. Of course you're gonna ask the question. You're gonna respect the answer. Are we good at this as a world of respecting the no in sexual situations? No.
