You don't have to explain why you said no. Demanding reasons after someone refuses something, like a kiss, violates consent and stems from wanting them to please you instead of respecting their autonomy.
I don't owe you a reason for saying no to you in life. If I think I always have to explain myself, I'm back to trying to please you. I've got to tell you why for you to be okay with me. You should just be able to say, that's Domish, that's Mike, that's whoever it is, and they shouldn't have to say their why because it's a choice. It's the same thing if I say, can I kiss you? And you go, no. And if I go, why not? Is that okay? No, it sounds like you owed me an explanation for my no, which you didn't.
