Mike DomitrzPresident, Author, and Speaker on Respect, The Center for Respect, Inc. · Author & Speaker on Respect for Schools, Corporations, & the Military since 1990 (has reached

You Never Owe

10 Dec 2025 · 1 min

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In this brief spoken segment, the presenter argues that a demand for sexual intimacy, images, video, or activity is fundamentally a claim that the other person owes them something. The speaker emphatically states that no one ever owes another person any form of sexual exchange, regardless of factors such as popularity, money spent, prior sexual history, or any previous encounters. The core message is a clear, unconditional assertion that sexual consent is never an obligation and that any demand is a mischaracterization of consent.

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A demand implies one thing and one thing only. Ready? A demand implies you owe me. That's what it implies. So this might be the most important question of the night. Do you ever owe another person sexual intimacy, images, video, activity? Do you ever owe anything sexual? Yes or no? Never. I don't care how popular they are. I don't care how much money they spent on you. I don't care how far you've gone with them or other people before, or even that night. You never owe.