Mike DomitrzPresident, Author, and Speaker on Respect, The Center for Respect, Inc. · Author & Speaker on Respect for Schools, Corporations, & the Military since 1990 (has reached

You NEVER owe sexual intimacy or activity.

8 Feb 2024 · 1 min

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In this segment, the speaker confronts the misconception that sexual intimacy can be demanded or owed to a partner. By contrasting a demand with a request, they argue that a demand implies an entitlement—"you owe me"—which is fundamentally wrong because no one can claim a right to another's sexual activity. The speaker uses a simple example of demanding a kiss and extends it to more advanced sexual acts, emphasizing that such behavior is never acceptable. The core message is a direct, rhetorical question: "Do you ever owe a human being sexual intimacy?" The answer is a categorical no, underscoring the principle that consent must always be freely given, not coerced or assumed.

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Some will try to do the opposite. They'll try to show confidence. They'll do one of these. Hey, give me a kiss. Whoa. By the way, do people do that stuff? Yes. Do some people do that stuff with more advanced sexual activity? They like demand it from their partner. Some do. Is it okay? It is never okay. Here's why. That's called a demand. That is not a request. And here's what a demand implies. A demand implies you owe me. Because you cannot demand something of someone they don't owe you. You can't. So they are now saying you owe them. So this might be the most important question I ask all night. Do you ever owe a human being sexual intimacy? Yes or no? No. Never.