YOUR PARTNER
26 Jun 2025 · 0 min

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Your partner doesn't own your body or your time. Sex requires ongoing, enthusiastic consent every single time, no matter how long you've been together. You never owe anyone sex, and they never owe it to you.

Your partner doesn't own your body or your time. Sex requires ongoing, enthusiastic consent every single time, no matter how long you've been together. You never owe anyone sex, and they never owe it to you.
Your partner does not give up any freedoms when they're in a relationship with you. They should never be doing that. They shouldn't be giving up their boundaries. They shouldn't owe you anything sexually. So therefore, it should always be mutual. Yes, of course you still want to ask your partners 30 years in, 50 years in, or one night in. You want them to have a choice and you want to hear they want it, not just, okay, yes, I guess. You want to hear that mutuality.